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  • EchoB
    EchoB Posts: 124 Forumite
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    Not having a very MSE month, I’m feeling cross with myself. I’ve had a few unnecessary costs like a take away, a few BBQs and a bottle of gin that I really didn’t need.

    Work hasn’t been great which I think is a contributing factor.
    i need to rein it in and get back on it. Also have my sisters birthday coming up, need to not splurge on her.

    Thanks for the encouragement BD80s, I think I need to create pots for everything so I can have the odd treat that will be in budget. 

    Thanks SH for the link :-) 
  • mark55man
    mark55man Posts: 8,209 Forumite
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    edited 13 June 2020 at 8:55AM
    it is a slog, but in the grand scheme of things a few BBQ and some gin isn't going to set you back too far.  my OH and I have replaced our entire entertainment budget with a G&T every night (Lidl Rhubarb and Ginger with low cal tonic is very nice - its only 20% so not full strength but only £10 for 50cl so not a huge extravagance)  - maybe get one for you and one for your sister
    I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
    Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
    Smiling and waving and looking so fine
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,971 Forumite
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    Thanks Echo for signing up.  Hopefully we will both get something out of it.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • bd80s
    bd80s Posts: 368 Forumite
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    I feel cross with myself as well because I bought lots of rubbish to eat last week and proceeded to eat it.....so it cost me £s and lbs :disappointed: 
    But these aren't set backs...just little speed bumps, i'm sure you'll be back on track next month :smile:
  • EchoB
    EchoB Posts: 124 Forumite
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    Just wrote a long post and lost it 😤

    Progress to date is;

    L1 £11,727 from £14,396
    L2 ££13,320 from £15,000
    CC1 £0 from £4,022
    CC2 £4,081 from £4,397
    CC3 £1,001 from £0

    total £30,129 from £37,815 £7686 paid to date 20.33%

    Gutted to be so close to under £30k but I will get there next month, if I do it this month I will struggle in July.

    i ended June in my OD, this is not an option for July as it will start to cost me in interest.
  • EchoB
    EchoB Posts: 124 Forumite
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    I think the problem is I’ve seen my interest free OD as “free money”. I won’t let myself go into it this month. 

    I could have made a further overpayment to get into the £20k bracket but it would have made July mega tough.

    i will get there next month 🤞and I can celebrate hitting 20% paid 🎉

    I have £680 in my EF and I haven’t touched it so far 😄
  • Well done on the progress  🎉 :smile: and for not dipping in to your Emergency Fund. This is a big one for me as when I see the number go up monthly a part of me does get tempted to use it toward debt BUT so far so good. 

    Also kudos on recognising your limits/ not over doing it. It's easy to go the other way and overstretch to pay of debt and it's counter productive! Good luck on staying out of your OD 👍
    Total Debt @ LBM: £26,380.49
    • Total debt: £2,500
    • % of my debt gone forever: 90%
    Debt Free Goal Date: June 2023
    My Debt Free Diary 
  • EchoB
    EchoB Posts: 124 Forumite
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    Well done on the progress  
    Also kudos on recognising your limits/ not over doing it. It's easy to go the other way and overstretch to pay of debt and it's counter productive! Good luck on staying out of your OD 👍

    Thanks FOMO I’ve learnt my lesson on not overstretching!!!

    I will touch the EF to pay back CC3 in August but then I will build a £1k pot as I realise I am rubbish at budgeting, I never manage to plan for everything. 

    From August I am going to try really hard to budget and track expenditure against it as this it’s all the little things that add up without me realising that get me into trouble.
  • joedenise
    joedenise Posts: 17,668 Forumite
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    Do you have "pots" set up for various things - food, fuel, healthcare, car etc?  If not it's a great way of saving.  I even have a pot for Things I have forgotten!  It's so easy not to remember absolutely everything that comes our of your account, particularly if they are annual expenses!  Once I've budgeted what I've worked out I need to put by monthly in each of my pots, everything else just goes into the Things I have forgotten pot so it builds up every month.  Might be worth a go.

  • EchoB
    EchoB Posts: 124 Forumite
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    I think I am going to use pots, once CC3 is gone I love the idea of a “Things I have forgotten pot”!!!! I will definitely need one of those 😂
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