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What was your standard of living growing up?

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  • Well we had it tough. We used to have to get up out of the shoebox at twelve o'clock at night, and LICK the road clean with our tongues. We had half a handful of freezing cold gravel, worked twenty-four hours a day at the mill for fourpence every six years, and when we got home, our Dad would slice us in two with a bread knife.
    I choose the rooms that I live in with care,
    The windows are small and the walls almost bare,
    There's only one bed and there's only one prayer;
    I listen all night for your step on the stair.
  • Jami74
    Jami74 Posts: 1,291 Forumite
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    Came from parents who drank/smoke/gambled and were fighting mental health issues. Moved multiple times throughout my childhood. Sometimes there was lots of money and we had take-aways and day trips and even holidays. Sometimes there was none and I'd wear plastic bags in my shoes, teachers would tell me off for 'forgetting' my coat and we weren't allowed to turn the tv on. My parents loved me, I felt safe and there was always food.
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  • I have just stumbled on all your previous threads.
    Don't take it personally, but I think you need to get out more.
    Make it your new year resolution
    I choose the rooms that I live in with care,
    The windows are small and the walls almost bare,
    There's only one bed and there's only one prayer;
    I listen all night for your step on the stair.
  • DD265
    DD265 Posts: 2,223 Forumite
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    I come from a high income, high debt household. I didn't really notice it so much as a child/teenager, but we often had the latest and greatest, a holiday every year. The cars were always company/on finance and I can see now how the finances in the house were always a step behind. There was never financial trouble, but looking back I'm not sure we were ever ahead of ourselves. I think most things were purchased on credit and paid off, rather than saved up for and paid cash.

    I definitely picked up a lot of those traits and I'm still getting myself away from that. It has been (is) hard work!
  • Happy.warm & well fed......holidays in caravans till i was 9.then we went abroad in 1971.......The Isle Of Man:rotfl:
    My parents didn't have loads of cash my dad was quite high up in the civil service but bringing up 3 kids wasn't cheap
  • Miserable and cold but fed. Bizarre upbringing. Hated pretty every minute of it except listening to vinyl records with my mum and gaining a love of nature from my dad. I hated being a child and living at home and escaped as soon as I could. The biggest thing I learnt from my dad was to work hard hence why I am in a much better financial situation now but still could be better.
    "Everything comes to him who hustles while he waits" Thomas Edison
    Following the Martin mantra "Earn more, have less debt, improve credit worthiness" :money:
  • Well we had it tough. We used to have to get up out of the shoebox at twelve o'clock at night, and LICK the road clean with our tongues. We had half a handful of freezing cold gravel, worked twenty-four hours a day at the mill for fourpence every six years, and when we got home, our Dad would slice us in two with a bread knife.

    But you know, we were happy in those days, though we were poor.
    Aiming to make £7,500 online in 2022
  • Well we had it tough. We used to have to get up out of the shoebox at twelve o'clock at night, and LICK the road clean with our tongues. We had half a handful of freezing cold gravel, worked twenty-four hours a day at the mill for fourpence every six years, and when we got home, our Dad would slice us in two with a bread knife.

    We can all vie with each other as to who had the most poor upbringing.;) :p

    https://youtu.be/VAdlkunflRs
    I have just stumbled on all your previous threads.
    Don't take it personally, but I think you need to get out more.
    A cunning plan, Baldrick? Whatever it was, it's got to be better than pretending to be mad; after all, who'd notice another mad person around here?.......Edmund Blackadder.
  • My parents were/are amazing people who provided me with a lovely childhood. Looking back there was never any spare cash, however there was always food in the fridge and I always had new school uniform and shoes etc.

    We didn't go abroad until I was 15. Most years we would spend a week in a caravan in Devon. They are some of my happiest memories.

    I was always encouraged to go on school trips and I was able to have piano lessons costing £14 per hour 20 years ago! Looking back they must have made sacrifices in order for me to do these things.

    I would describe my upbringing as privileged in a non-financial sense.
  • dan958
    dan958 Posts: 770 Forumite
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    My parents definitely struggled, but I never knew that growing up. I had a roof over my head, food in the cupboard and received gifts such as a Gameboy for Christmas.

    As I have gotten older, my parents said that it got harder at Christmas/Birthday times when I started getting to the age of wanting the new video game console, and my sister got to the age where she wanted fashionable clothes/accessories.

    My dad was self employed, but the buisness wasnt earning anything, so the only income was from my mum. Eventually, my dad closed the buisness and got a job elsewhere and that is when the financial issues were not as much of an issue.
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