We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Work related stress sick note

Options
2»

Comments

  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 36,044 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Dannistall wrote: »
    It's worth and try, I will give them a call and ask if they can do this, thank you

    I would suggest putting it in writing rather than phoning. Once you've read the policy. Always best to have a record so it doesn't go all "he said/she said.) Plus you've got time then to phrase it properly rather than feeling put on the spot and not explaining it properly.
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • Mrsn
    Mrsn Posts: 1,430 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Third Anniversary Name Dropper
    Dannistall I have UC too and it can be a horrendous disease to cope with at times.

    How long has it been since your diagnosis? I’m assuming that you are also under the care of a consultant on the maternity unit of the hospital you will be having the baby at? If so is there anything they can do to assist with this whilst your flare up is still ongoing. I’m sure you already know this but it’s super important to try and get this flare up under control ASAP.

    You can ask for the meetings to be held in a more convenient location IE at your home so the worry of blood and accidents is somewhat diminished. They are entitled to keep in regular contact with you and each company will have different rules as to how frequent these will be. Don’t resign in the heat of the moment, I know it’s hard for you right now but it will get better
  • I first started getting flares around 4/5 year ago but ignored them till I was pregnant with my daughter 3 year ago as it wasn't just about me then but the symptoms went away on their own half way through pregnancy, they didn't actually do the camera till after I had my daughter then diagnosed me then, yes I'm under the care by 2 specialists at hospital but being referred to another who specialises in pregnancy and UC which I'm very thankful for! I'm going to go to this meeting today, accidents or not so I can tell them how I'm really feeling about it all hopefully they understand
  • sportsarb
    sportsarb Posts: 1,069 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    They should be understanding about your needs, a request such as having the meetings at your home, or at a more convenient location should be accommodated.

    Most important thing is the health of you and your foetus.
  • gizmo111
    gizmo111 Posts: 2,663 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Have you seen occupational health?
    Mama read so much about the dangers of drinking alcohol and eating chocolate that she immediately gave up reading.
  • TBagpuss
    TBagpuss Posts: 11,236 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    As others have said, check you work's sickness policiy. they are probably trying to keep in touch with you so they have some idea of when/if you are likelyto be well enough to return, but you can request that the meetings take place at home, at a neutral location near your home, or by phone, if you are not well enough to go to the office.
    All posts are my personal opinion, not formal advice Always get proper, professional advice (particularly about anything legal!)
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 351K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.6K Spending & Discounts
  • 244K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.9K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.9K Life & Family
  • 257.3K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.