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desperate for advice

Hi all,

Please be gentle, this is my first post and I'm terrified!

I was made redundant from my long term job and around the same time was hit with a huge HMRC bill a few years back, which I paid with an at that time 0% credit card. This, along with an unreliable income as I fought my ex-employers, has grown into £19k of debt across 3 credit card providers. I moved back with my parents, sold everything valuable and have just about been able to keep up with the minimum repayments as I looked for more secure work. My credit score is stable and I have not missed any payments or defaulted but I feel like I'm drowning and never able to get a foothold on paying more than the minimumm.

I have started to speak with Step Change about a manageable DMP and am pretty certain this is my best option. However, I've now finally been offered a secure, long-term and modestly paid contract which will enable me to start chipping away at my debt but it is not in the UK. My worries are that as a DMP is an informal agreement my creditors will hassle my last known UK address (my parents) and I won't be in the country, despite taking a job abroad to pay for said debts. I'm not sure I could live with the guilt of my parents being intimidated by my creditors without me being there to deal with the consequences.

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