CreditCardJunkie's back again...

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Here's the jist if you're new here;
- I had a previous diary and got lost along the way
- I was constantly in a trap of running up a card, then balance transfering it onto an interest free card, then running the first one up again
- I never budgeted properly, I didn't give myself spending money. I paid all my extra money off my credit cards so if I needed/wanted something I used my credit card - what's a 10er here and there
- Started using spreadsheets and quickly realised £10 here and there adds up to a few hundred pounds of pretty much nothing per month!
- I was pregnant when I started this diary because I only get statutory maternity pay and I was panicking about getting deeper into debt
- Buying second hand is SO much cheaper and is better for the environment
- Although my car is a you-know-what-heap, it's mine. Lease cars weren't really ever mine and now I don't have to worry about where I park
- I had a previous diary and got lost along the way
- I was constantly in a trap of running up a card, then balance transfering it onto an interest free card, then running the first one up again
- I never budgeted properly, I didn't give myself spending money. I paid all my extra money off my credit cards so if I needed/wanted something I used my credit card - what's a 10er here and there
- Started using spreadsheets and quickly realised £10 here and there adds up to a few hundred pounds of pretty much nothing per month!
- I was pregnant when I started this diary because I only get statutory maternity pay and I was panicking about getting deeper into debt
- Buying second hand is SO much cheaper and is better for the environment
- Although my car is a you-know-what-heap, it's mine. Lease cars weren't really ever mine and now I don't have to worry about where I park
Debt Free as of December 2020 👏
Save 12k in 2023 #35: £4250 / £12,000
Earn £365 on Prolific in 2023: £53.50 / £365
Save 12k in 2023 #35: £4250 / £12,000
Earn £365 on Prolific in 2023: £53.50 / £365
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Save 12k in 2023 #35: £4250 / £12,000
Earn £365 on Prolific in 2023: £53.50 / £365
Save 12k in 2023 #35: £4250 / £12,000
Earn £365 on Prolific in 2023: £53.50 / £365
Have a look at survey sites and mystery shopping as ways to make a few extra pounds to help cover the baby things you still need.
I can't seem to hold on to money unless it has a purpose, so I think the only way for me is to withdraw cash and put in separate envelopes for birthdays etc.
As the majority is interest free perhaps I should allocate less at the start of the month and if there's anything left then pay it off?
With regards to the gas we only have one supplier in our area. We're on a top up meter which I know is more expensive but I'm always cold and I fear big quarterly bills if we're not aware of what we're using!
Save 12k in 2023 #35: £4250 / £12,000
Earn £365 on Prolific in 2023: £53.50 / £365
Save 12k in 2023 #35: £4250 / £12,000
Earn £365 on Prolific in 2023: £53.50 / £365
Today was a NSD, bought plenty in shopping for lunches which is often where I fall out of budget.
Save 12k in 2023 #35: £4250 / £12,000
Earn £365 on Prolific in 2023: £53.50 / £365
UNPLANNED SPENDS
£6 on a drink at a concert this week (concert was booked last year) - used CC for this
£12 at Smyth's - Used the Smyth's £6 off £15 spend voucher for a friend's daughters birthday in July, have borrowed the money from our joint account for this and will put it back when I get paid. Total spend on this gift was £12, when I'd planned to spend £20 out of June's pay.
£36 - my half of a required overspend on bathroom DIY - dipped into the car fund for paying back a relative for this which I will put back when I get paid. We had someone come out and quote £500 to do this work so we've saved a fair bit by doing that ourselves. DH did a brilliant job.
£8 - voile curtains for the nursery. Used the joint account as these were on sale at 40% off so also need to make this up when I get paid.
Running total - £62 overspend
Trying to make it until Friday with no other personal spends. Have done a click and collect for shopping so should have plenty for lunches for work etc.
June will have plenty of spends, mum's birthday, father's Day, a relative's 70th birthday and two lunch outings with different friendship groups!
On the plus side of this it's also my birthday and I'm going for a pregnancy massage which was a bonus from work.
Going to pay my minimum payments, then all my gifts/outings and see what I've left to overpay on the debts. My aim for May pay is;
NatWest CC - £300
BC CC - £50
Car - £100
This should leave me with around £75 for the June spends mentioned above.
Save 12k in 2023 #35: £4250 / £12,000
Earn £365 on Prolific in 2023: £53.50 / £365
Just found your diary. I use Marketforce for low paid jobs but there are lots of them. There is also Tern, React and Retail Active. MysteryShoppers have a few as do Bare International but all will have different amounts of work depending on where you live. It is also worth remembering that there is tax to pay as it seems that you already earn above the tax free threshold.
With regards to your last post - will £75 cover all the things you want to do?
Congratulations on your baby! :j
In the nicest way possible, I'm going to be quite blunt:
Yes, you are right. This is death by a thousand cuts and in some way more dangerous than the people who have incurred debt for a large one-off purchase like a car or home improvements as it's harder to cut back on. A tenner here or there doesn't feel like such a big deal, does it?
Respectfully, other than this one area, you haven't. Your post showing all the unplanned spending shows as much.
You need to stop using the CCs. Now. It would be better if you cut them up, but even if for now you put them in the freezer and don't use them for a month to prove that you can do it, that would be a start.
I would highly recommend you start paying for everything other than the bills which are taken from your bank account each month in cold hard cash. It feels very different when you hand over cash rather than a card as you get a better sense of the money actually leaving your possession, never to return.
I would highly recommend you using a zero-based budget with an envelope system à la Dave Ramsey.
Bad idea: you will find another use for the saved money or spend more on the card. I would recommend paying it off the card straight away as having a decreasing balance will inspire you to spend less and pay off more.
I would highly recommend setting up 'pots' for annual bills and present so that you can put a set amount aside each pay period so that you have enough money to cover the expense once it is due to be paid.
You are nearly guaranteed to find something else to do with this money if you do this. I would recommend setting a zero based budget and paying off all the bills in the first instance so you *have* to stick to your budget for the rest of the month.
Starter Emergency Fund (#187): £1000/£1000
3 month Emergency Fund (#45): £3300/£3300