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Job interview - reason for leaving last job.

Hello everyone,


I resigned from my last job, after several years as a solid employee, as following a loss of a staff member I faced a huge increase in my workload, and felt the role was untenable. During this period of 2-3 months my sick record got progressively higher, as the dis-stressing circumstances at work was taking its toll on me.



I will shortly have a job interview, should I mention these circumstances which led to me leaving? Should i mention my sickness record being particualrly high during this period?


Or am I best trying to gloss over this?


Many thanks for your help
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  • Masomnia
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    Just say you resigned, need a new challenge etc.
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  • jonnygee2
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    I will shortly have a job interview, should I mention these circumstances which led to me leaving?

    Absolutely not. Complaining about conditions and workloads in an interview basically says 'I'm applying to work with you because I think I'll get an easier ride here'.


    If you think it's likely you'll get a bad reference or your sick leave will be mentioned, then I'd say something more like you left because the job stopped working out for you and you were going through a difficult time personally, you knew you weren't performing at your best, and you felt you needed a clean break. Something like that.
  • jonnygee2 wrote: »
    Absolutely not. Complaining about conditions and workloads in an interview basically says 'I'm applying to work with you because I think I'll get an easier ride here'.


    If you think it's likely you'll get a bad reference or your sick leave will be mentioned, then I'd say something more like you left because the job stopped working out for you and you were going through a difficult time personally, you knew you weren't performing at your best, and you felt you needed a clean break. Something like that.


    Problem is I won't know at the interview what the reference will contain, if I'm successful?
  • ska_lover
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    Hi OP - I empathise

    I am in a pretty similar situation right now- I haven't left yet, but I feel a hairs width away from storming out if i am honest. I dont think I would get a bad reference (unless I end up storming out) as I have tried so hard to keep things afloat but it is untenable now

    It is such a shame as I used to really like my job

    I have started doing a lot of job hunting, but I have been wondering too, what to say, when this question comes up

    It has come up on a few application forms so far, and I have been putting 'wanting a new challenge' - but that seems very generic, I am sure during an interview, that they would want to delve deeper into this
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  • Nasqueron
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    Mr_Apples wrote: »
    Problem is I won't know at the interview what the reference will contain, if I'm successful?


    I think they tend to check references after the interview to save chasing up loads of firms. It also depends on what the firm says in a reference, they may just confirm the time you worked there but equally, the new firm may ask the amount of sick leave you had which you can't lie about

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  • jonnygee2
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    Problem is I won't know at the interview what the reference will contain, if I'm successful?

    No, you won't know for sure. You'll just have to make your own judgement about how likely a bad reference is and how much ground you want to lay just in case.
  • lew_1987
    lew_1987 Posts: 18 Forumite
    These days most references are simply covering the dates that you were employed at the job, and nothing more. I wouldn't worry too much about that.
  • elsien
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    lew_1987 wrote: »
    These days most references are simply covering the dates that you were employed at the job, and nothing more. I wouldn't worry too much about that.

    Everyone keeps saying that but in my line of work you'd never get that basic a reference. I do think it depends what field you are in.
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  • Savvy_Sue
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    Whatever you decide to say, I do recommend practising saying it out loud beforehand.
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  • Sea_Shell
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    Will you be changing industries, even for the same type of job? (e.g. accounts / admin).

    If so, can you frame it around wanting to see what opportunities there were to work in a different environment/industry, whilst bring your experience in XYZ to the role.
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