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Hi everyone!

After many tries to get rid of my debt, I have just been approved for 0% card to transfer my credit card debt (£1343), so I can focus on paying off my overdraft now.

I foolishly took out a student overdraft and still have not paid it off after 3 years of working! I had one good month where I paid it off and actually reduced my limit so it is down from £1500 to £1380 - but every time since then that I have gotten close to reducing it I have ended up blowing the money on a holiday or something.

I earn enough money to live comfortably, I just have a problem saying no to things so always spend more than I can really afford. I'm trying to find a budget where I can still enjoy my life but also clear these debts this year!

My take home pay is £1878 and I have a budget plan that I hope I will be able to stick to and can share later (I have it on a memory stick that I left in my office)

I always manage to spend so little at the end of the month when I am running out - so I am hoping to try and live by these same principles throughout the month and just spend on things that matter. I don't really buy much, it is mostly food, eating out, drinks, holidays... I have been pretty good at making my own lunches for work for the past few months - just need to not buy extra snacks and limit my meals out in the evening!

My goals:
Feb-May
OD: £350 per month --> £0
CC: £50 per month --> £1143

Jun-Sep
CC: £286 per month --> £0
Save: £100 per month

Then from September I hope to save £400 a month

I'm hoping to find some support here as I am pretty embarrassed to admit my debt to any one in my life but I find these things are always easier if you have people to talk it through with!

Any advice is much appreciated :D

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  • I'm the same as you come the end of the month; no problem scraping meals together, walking instead of getting the bus, but then I just spend without thinking during the rest of the month! A habit I'd really love to get out of :)

    Happy new diary!
    Debts: CC1: [STRIKE]£1675.83[/STRIKE] £2269.40 CC2: [STRIKE]£3209.11[/STRIKE] £707.56 CC3:[STRIKE]£704.04[/STRIKE] £235.69 OWE PARTNER: £0
    2020 1% Challenge:
  • Thanks FaceHeelTurn - I'm going to try for two no spend days a week to see how that goes in not blowing everything at once!
  • Breakdown of my budget as promised

    Income: 1878

    Weekly
    Veg box: 9
    Lidl: 7
    Other food: 10
    Transport: 20
    Hobbies: 15
    Eating out: 30
    Drinks: 30
    Entertainment: 10
    Yoga: 6.65 (buy 4 at a time)
    House kitty: 5
    Total: 620 (I multiplied all by 4.35)

    Monthly
    Rent: 575
    Household bills: 80
    Phone: 44
    Phone insurance: 5
    Bike insurance: 3
    Toiletries: 10
    Clothes: 20
    Glastonbury: 45
    Holidays: 70

    Total: 852+620=1472

    Save: 350
    CC: 50

    I forgot to bring my memory stick again so I'm doing this from memory but I think it is correct! It is very tight to my income but I am trying to also do some surveys on Prolific for extra cash and to sell stuff on ebay - I have loads of clothes that I haven't worn in years.

    I know I usually waste lots of money on food. I get a vegetable box scheme, not the cheapest but I like supporting the small local company that does it and I find it encourages me to cook as I need to use the veg up! I inevitably end up needing extra veg to make meals work (hence the name) - but I'm going to try to get as much of this as possible from Lidl. There is some stuff that I use that I can't get in Lidl so that is the "other food" section - but I will always look in Lidl first!

    I also won't necessarily spend the 30 on eating out and 30 on drinks but I think that I will keep that as the budget, and save any of it I don't use - or carry it over if I am having a busy weekend.

    Today was OK spend wise - I don't get paid til Thursday so I guess I don't have a choice :rotfl: but I have money put aside that I have made so far from ebay/surveys and in my Glastonbury fund (£70 - I paid £50 deposit and have to pay another £200 in April so trying to keep some aside each month - I worked it out as 35 but skipped a month somewhere so have upped it to 45). The ebay/survey money I want to keep aside for this weekend as I am going away with some friends - I have my budget for dinner, drink, entertainment but I am happy to have the extra buffer.
  • VegQueen
    VegQueen Posts: 12 Forumite
    Third Anniversary
    Back from my trip this weekend - managed to not overspend too much. I knew it would be expensive and it was but I think the rest of my weekends this month should be a lot less. Overall I spent about £180 for 4 days- my weekly budget for food/travel/going out/hobbies is £131 so I did overspend but that money comes from the £90 extra I made from ebay etc. I just need to be frugal until Thursday when my weekly budget will restart.

    Today's spending: £4.18
    Today I spent £1.50 on bus to work and £2.68 on snacks for the office (should last for a few days)

    Other money I spent that I won't count is 79p on ebay postage (paid for by buyer) and 85p on veg for my dinner. This was change that I got from buying a drink at a bar with minimum spend on card- they charged me 10 and gave me the difference in cash, but I counted the 10 previously so I see this as money already accounted for so won't count twice.

    I also tilly tidied £1.28 after finding out what it is last night :D

    I live in a house share and the bills go from my account so I need to still chase up one of my flatmates for the money then I can check everything is in order and my ingoings/outgoings will balance out!

    Also need to find a few more items to put on ebay - I want to try to list 5 a month for the year. Then donate everything else to charity shops. It is all clothes pretty much and very hit or miss what sells but I have made quite a bit previously.

    Tomorrow, I will only have to spend money on transport but Wednesday I do have plans to eat out - maybe I will suggest my friend comes to eat at mine instead as I have not got any money left in my budget! Otherwise I have to borrow from the following week but that will eventually catch up with me!
  • Shashwoo
    Shashwoo Posts: 239 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hello hunni. You sound just like me, I've just started a diary too.
    Good luck and I have subscribed xx

    :kisses2::smileyhea:love: 1st June 2012 @ 1pm I married the man of my dreams!!!
  • VegQueen
    VegQueen Posts: 12 Forumite
    Third Anniversary
    My spending has not been quite as low as I would have liked...

    After posting the day before yesterday, I donated £5 to a friends fundraiser for her theatre project - I feel like this is good spending though so can't complain

    Yesterday I went to my boyfriend's for dinner but he was unwell so we ordered deliveroo. I insisted on splitting it even though I'm sure he would have paid but it was not too much £7.56 - still I already used all of my food and eating out budget so had to borrow it from the next week!

    I did get free lunch today though! I was walking back to my office after a meeting and I went passed the Hari Krishnas giving away free lunch. I was planning on buying lunch in the office tomorrow - just soup or something cheap - but instead I got the free lunch today and will eat today's lunch tomorrow. So I feel like I have saved something at least.
  • I have just about managed to keep to my budget - spent a bit more on food and less on drink so it evens out! I added everything up and still on to have £350 of my OD and £50 on my 0% card even after realising I still have £22 to pay of interest on my old Amex that I transferred the balance from!

    I'm really going to try for a no spend day tomorrow as I have had NONE since starting the diary! It does not help that I tend to buy food as I go not in a big shop - in general I think this definitely works best for me to reduce food waste and I live in a house share so I have limited space. As I live in a big city it is easy to pop to decent shops so the only reason it would work out more expensive is more opportunities to impulse buy, but I am getting fairly good at resisting most of the time!

    Tomorrow, if I cycle to work there is no reason to spend anything as I have no plans in the evening and I have lunch and snacks for work, so I will see how that goes! Also tomorrow evening I will put a few things on ebay - I haven't done any this month. I'm hoping to reach cash out level of £10 on my one my survey accounts tomorrow too so that will be a nice bonus - I'm putting money from this stuff into a sort of buffer fund for any extras that I have not budgeted for
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