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safeguarding children's inheritance

I am in a relationship which is going from strength to strength. Both been married before, he has 5 children, I have 2. His house is probably worth around £100,000 and he has a mortgage, not quite sure how much and no savings. My house is worth £200,000, mortgage free and I have around £20,000 savings. The question of moving in with each other has come up and I would like some advice on how to approach the subject of wills as I have suggested he move in with me, rent his property out and see how things go. That way we will both have our own house, should things go belly-up! However, as I have worked hard and fought to get my house, I was looking forward to setting the children up for life. Is there legal way round keeping our properties separate to give to the appropriate children, as I now believe that if you live together, you are entitled to half of the assets.

Any ideas please?

Comments

  • There are ways but you need to see a lawyer to explain your situation and you should ask about a separation of property agreement, and about setting up a trust for your children. These are not particularly expensive at all, but should be done much sooner rather than later!
  • shykins
    shykins Posts: 2,768 Forumite
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    in a similar situation here.. i did my will allowing my partner to live in my house for his life and upon his death my estate including the house goes to my son...

    i worked for a solicitor and know how to word these things so i would advise u go see a solicitor to ensure its all worded correctly for both of your sakes

    HTH
    When you know better you do better
  • SSB
    SSB Posts: 332 Forumite
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    Hi
    Just by living together does not entitle your partner to half of your assets, you still need to be either married or in a civil partnership.
    SSB :D
  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    Go to your solicitor, tell him/her what you want in the event of your death, then have a will written accordingly.

    Another idea is something that I have - DF has his own home with a short period of mortgage to run, I have a substantial sum of life insurance which will go to my 2 DS's as I do not have any property. When we marry, my share of the house will go to DF, DS's will get the money.
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