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My “friend” which is no longer my friend owes me a small amount of money

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  • dealer_wins
    dealer_wins Posts: 7,334 Forumite
    Its cost you at least another 50p in electricity, equipment wear and tear and time to post this, so remember to add that on to the £5 OP.
  • Let me clarify I’m not trolling, this is 100% serious, you think I can afford to troll? Wasting 10 minutes just to create an account and write this thread?
    If that’s a genuine question then yes, I do.
  • Jami74
    Jami74 Posts: 1,333 Forumite
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    What can I do about it?

    Any suggestions would be appreciated, thank you.

    I doubt there's an adult in the word who hasn't lent something to a 'friend' (or relative) and not got it back. It's a horrible feeling when it happens. You won't get it back so don't waste your energy stressing over it.

    And be thankful this lesson only cost you a fiver, read the forum and you'll soon see lots of poor sods who have paid thousands for the same lesson.
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  • Abbafan1972
    Abbafan1972 Posts: 7,218 Forumite
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    I was right, it is a small amount of money!
    Striving to clear the mortgage before it finishes in Dec 2028 - amount currently owed - £10,153.44
  • In the old days, people would have been transported to Oz for less.
    Maybe they're looking for a cheap ticket abroad, so to squeak?
  • foxy-stoat
    foxy-stoat Posts: 6,879 Forumite
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    Forget about the 5er - it was gone as soon as you gave it away.
  • pimento
    pimento Posts: 6,243 Forumite
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    You should make sure that anybody else who might ever find themselves in a position to loan money to your ex-friend knows about your experience.
    "If you think it's expensive to hire a professional to do the job, wait until you hire an amateur." -- Red Adair
  • It's £5.
    Let it go and move on.....
  • ReadingTim
    ReadingTim Posts: 4,087 Forumite
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    Consider it the course fee for a lesson on not to lend money to friends...
  • Chyna-s
    Chyna-s Posts: 3,110 Forumite
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    Go and ask their mum to take it out of their pocket money for you.
    Thank you all who post.
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