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Autistic friend talked into being loan guarantor
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So it's irrelevant to mention that he has Asperger's. People with AS on average have the same IQ as anyone else, so it doesn't make them magically more vulnerable to making bad financial decisionsAsperger's Syndrome is a 'spectrum condition'. Your brother may well be at the 'higher end' of the spectrum, but that doesn't mean that the guy in question is.poppy100 -
this looks like a safe guarding issue, social services would be a reasonable area to engage as well"It is prudent when shopping for something important, not to limit yourself to Pound land/Estate Agents"
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Going by some of the posts I've seen here relating to people who signed up as Guarantors and then find themselves being chased by the lender when the loan applicant fails to pay - I'd suggest a lot of guarantors don't fully understand the implications.
I can only suggest including this debt with the other debts you intend to seek help for. Your friend is liable for it so probably the pragmatic way to go.Working towards:
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I read here that a guarantor document may have to be witnessed and executed as a deed as it has no benefit to the person signing. So maybe if it wasn't witnessed and considering the person may be a vulnerable adult, a court would not see it as legally bindingThe greatest prediction of your future is your daily actions.0
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Clutching at straws there. Being a (possibly) vulnerable adult doesn't invalidate a contract.
And my question about the financial checks on the guarantor hasn't yet been answered. Did someone tell fibs on the application form?All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.0 -
Clutching at straws there. Being a (possibly) vulnerable adult doesn't invalidate a contract.
And my question about the financial checks on the guarantor hasn't yet been answered. Did someone tell fibs on the application form?
Its not a contract its a deed, a contract has a benefit, and a court would decide if it was enforceable not a forum.The greatest prediction of your future is your daily actions.0 -
Clutching at straws there. Being a (possibly) vulnerable adult doesn't invalidate a contract.
And my question about the financial checks on the guarantor hasn't yet been answered. Did someone tell fibs on the application form?
It invalidates it if he didn't understand what he was signing.
There's 2 issues here, one's the contract, the other is the capacity and safeguarding of the guarantor, which is a Police matter. They will be able to provide a crime reference number if something untoward has happened, and this will help the guarantor. There really should be some social services involvement if he's a vulnerable adult.0 -
My son is autistic, and autistic kids, grow into autistic adults, there can be a very wide degree of difference in awareness between different kids, my son is quite far up the autistic spectrum, and it’s doubtful he would ever understand what the role of a guarantor was.
It depends on the degree of his condition, and what medical evidence you can muster, but it’s highly likely the agreement could be annulled on medical grounds.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter0 -
dont_use_vistaprint wrote: »I read here that a guarantor document may have to be witnessed and executed as a deed as it has no benefit to the person signing. So maybe if it wasn't witnessed and considering the person may be a vulnerable adult, a court would not see it as legally binding
I also read that, and the post following which pointed out that this is "freeman on the land" nonsense and does not hold up in court.0 -
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He ... should never have been allowed to agree to the guarantee. He did not fully understand the implications of how serious this was.
You have said, in effect, that he does not have the mental capacity required for this kind of agreement. If that is true and officially recognised then he is released from this obligation, but as already pointed out the consequences of being declared to lack capacity are very serious. In fairness, the consequences of suicide are even more serious, so maybe this route is something to consider.0
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