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Being bought out of mortgage by ex - maths Qs

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  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
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    I'd suggest a response of a straight 50/50 division of equity. Is it possible that she's unable to raise the finance to buy you out?
  • getmore4less
    getmore4less Posts: 46,882 Forumite
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    Call her bluff and buy her out

    even if you have to sell if your valuation is right you win.
  • foxy-stoat
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    jamint wrote: »
    It's only now she's flagging this up as evidence of her "considerable contributions to the mortgage" and somehow this equating to her deserving more from the sale as a result. Which I naturally strongly disagree with.

    Morally agree with her, legally though doesnt change anything - still 50/50.

    If you like you can run the numbers to get actual figures;

    How much you paid per month
    How much she paid per month
    How many months of unequal payments
    How much interest was charged on the mortgage per month
  • Thrugelmir
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    foxy-stoat wrote: »
    Morally agree with her

    Nah. When relationships flounder. Human instinct kicks in. Money is money. There's no sentiment involved. Nothing to do with morals.
  • silvercar
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    The key fact is the valuation of £280k. Is this based on what an estate agent says, what next door sold for this year or some other information?

    If that £280k is optimistic then the amount offered is more realistic.
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  • sparkey1
    sparkey1 Posts: 444 Forumite
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    edited 8 August 2018 at 8:46PM
    Im wondering if she is planning to buy it with her new partner and therefore there may be a stamp duty liability, so hence the lower offer.

    If the partner has property already potentially there is 12K of stamp duty to pay.

    Regardless. In your situation I would go with the 50% share as you have worked out. In fact I did when I split years ago. We got three estate agents to value it and took the average figure. When the bank valuer came around... I might have steered him towards a lower valuation.

    In her situation, I would be offering you the 60K and maybe offering to pay the legals as a sweetner.
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