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is it just my OH
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that likes to hide his head in the sand with the debts even though alot of the debts are from him before we got together. sorry for having a moan the thing is i have some debts but not many but my OH has loads of debts. it was me that fished out his unopen letters from them that he had hide and me that wrote letter asking if they would take so much a month.
to this day he still thinks there is nothing to worry about and when his pay day comes i have to say i have lost the cash card as he just wants to spend don't get me wrong i love him to bits and he is a great dad he is just messy when it comes to money.
sorry for the rant
to this day he still thinks there is nothing to worry about and when his pay day comes i have to say i have lost the cash card as he just wants to spend don't get me wrong i love him to bits and he is a great dad he is just messy when it comes to money.
sorry for the rant
:eek::eek::eek:grand total of debt on 21/1/11 is £8,208.19 :eek::eek::eek:
debt total on 30/07/12 is £4313.52
water £847.75, HSBC £479.66, vodafone £262.35, Captial one £415, AA £47.97, scotcall (scottish power) £622, Arrow £420, Welcome £642.41, CSA (scottish power) £484.90, BT £91.50
debt total on 30/07/12 is £4313.52
water £847.75, HSBC £479.66, vodafone £262.35, Captial one £415, AA £47.97, scotcall (scottish power) £622, Arrow £420, Welcome £642.41, CSA (scottish power) £484.90, BT £91.50
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No, not just yours - there are loads on this site who have OH's that are frustratingly "difficult" on the old money/budgetting front!
That's one reason we spend so much time on here - to have a rant amongst like-minded people!!Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)0 -
thats good then:eek::eek::eek:grand total of debt on 21/1/11 is £8,208.19 :eek::eek::eek:
debt total on 30/07/12 is £4313.52
water £847.75, HSBC £479.66, vodafone £262.35, Captial one £415, AA £47.97, scotcall (scottish power) £622, Arrow £420, Welcome £642.41, CSA (scottish power) £484.90, BT £91.500 -
always good to feel your not alone.
Have you drawn up a list of incomings and outgoings? sat him down and shown it to him? may slap him into realising the reality of the situation. also total the debt and show that to him. He may be of the illusion it is a lot lower. I know when i worked out my total debt (pre LBM) was 39K jeez I went to pieces!!! He may be the same you never know. xxdebt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!:heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:0 -
yeah i did one but he just said oh it will be ok:eek::eek::eek:grand total of debt on 21/1/11 is £8,208.19 :eek::eek::eek:
debt total on 30/07/12 is £4313.52
water £847.75, HSBC £479.66, vodafone £262.35, Captial one £415, AA £47.97, scotcall (scottish power) £622, Arrow £420, Welcome £642.41, CSA (scottish power) £484.90, BT £91.500
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