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Bankruptcy and completing form

I think bankruptcy is my only option. I’m completing the form and for the last three years my parents have been making ad hoc payments to help me out as I don’t receive child maintenance. These have become more regular as I’ve needed the money to pay my credit card bills. I’m worried the official receiver will consider these as maintenance payments and they will in turn be investigated. Worse still that my ex will be contacted and we have a very acrimonious relationship and I’m worried he’d use it against me. Obviously if my bankruptcy is granted I wouldn’t need any money from my parents as I wouldn’t be paying the credit card repayments. Can anyone help me with this?

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  • National_Debtline
    National_Debtline Posts: 7,998 Organisation Representative
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    Hi 927


    The best option is to be open and honest and explain the situation to the OR. If your parents have simply been giving you money to keep you afloat, but you will no longer need it once you are made bankrupt, or perhaps they can't afford to continue, that will be fine.


    The only thing to consider is if they were loaning you the money they will need to be listed as one of your creditors. However if the money was a gift there should be no issue.


    I would recommend seeking some advice on the whole bankruptcy process so you understand all the implications, and to ensure it is the most suitable option. You can get some free advice from one of the debt advice charities.


    Best wishes


    Susie
    @natdebtline
    We work as money advisers for National Debtline and have specific permission from MSE to post to try to help those in debt. Read more information on National Debtline in MSE's Debt Problems: What to do and where to get help guide. If you find you're struggling with debt and need further help try our online advice tool My Money Steps
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