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MoneyWaster2007

hi i know this is not money related at all....sorry

i am having trouble dealing with breaking up with my girlfriend, can anyone recommend any sites that deal with this sort of thing?:o

pania

oh money sorry to hear you've chosen that course of action, pop over to the realtionships board, you'll find people going through the same things as yourself there. big hugs to you (and girlfriend!!) xx

MoneyWaster2007

we actually split up about february this year on mutual terms but for some reason i am still upset about it..... also she is now with someone else and he aint a very nice person.... he beat her up last week but she decided to stay with him

pania

oh gosh money that is atrocious to hear!! If you don't want to be with her then the best you can offer is to be a very good kind friend, accepting of her decisions but there for her when she needs. That is if you don't find it too emotionally draining and find yourself falling for her again.
It's as if she is in the new flush of romance and refuses to beleive her OH is this bad.
I think you need to consider the reasons why you are upset. is it because now she is with someone else you realise that you want her after all?
Is it because you care deeply for her and hate to see her in this situation?
Something only you can answer hon but it's a toughy i admit.
xx

Larumbelle

Sorry to hear. It sounds an awful situation to be in and one I can't think how to deal with. The relationships board will know what to do, though, I'm sure :grouphug:

Toto

there's a great site run by my friend thea, it's called soyouvebeendumped.com she works endlessly to help people through these sorts of situations and the forums are always busy.