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Anyone else in the 50K + club?

mandi80
mandi80 Posts: 22 Forumite
edited 17 May 2018 at 10:06AM in Debt-free wannabe
Afternoon everyone,

Just curious as to how many other people on here have debts that exceed 50k. Trying to convince my anxious husband that we are not alone!!!


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  • Working_Mum
    Working_Mum Posts: 866 Forumite
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    Hi Mandi80,
    I am not exactly sure how many people are in the £50k Club - you'd have to read each diary and ascertain!!

    I WAS in that Club but am now at £35k plus mortgage.

    Start a diary and do an SOA as it'll ease your husband's fears - everyone here is fantastically helpful and non-judgemental.

    Welcome to your debt free journey

    ((hugs))

    WM x
  • NaughtiusMaximus
    NaughtiusMaximus Posts: 2,840 Forumite
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    I was 47K in debt when I started my DMP in 2005 (the equivalent of over 60K today if you take into account inflation) and am now completely debt free.
  • mandi80
    mandi80 Posts: 22 Forumite
    I have never really thought much about the total amount. To me it's all relative anyway. My debts would be a walk in the park for someone earning 200k a year, whereas someone on low pay might be stressed over a couple of grand.
  • Indout96
    Indout96 Posts: 2,404 Forumite
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    Unless I am misunderstanding your post -
    You are >£50k in (unsecured ?) Debt and are happy to keep on spending and building the Debt as you have a good income whilst your husband it wanting to cut down on the debt.
    I think you will find the majority view is with your husband, "good" incomes can vanish quickly in this day and age.
    apologies if I have misunderstood.
    Totally Debt Free & Mortgage Free Semi retired and happy
  • Larac
    Larac Posts: 958 Forumite
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    I was on close to £60K in 2012 - now down to £6K - Did have a couple of stress moments when my job was at risk twice in that period. No one knows what is around the corner, so best IMHO to have some sort of plan in place to get rid of the debt. Sense of relief now that it is coming to an end TBH.
  • CopleyDog
    CopleyDog Posts: 24 Forumite
    Sure am... check out my Debt Free Diary ‘Back to Black’
  • mandi80
    mandi80 Posts: 22 Forumite
    Indout96 wrote: »
    Unless I am misunderstanding your post -
    You are >£50k in (unsecured ?) Debt and are happy to keep on spending and building the Debt as you have a good income whilst your husband it wanting to cut down on the debt.
    I think you will find the majority view is with your husband, "good" incomes can vanish quickly in this day and age.
    apologies if I have misunderstood.

    Hi,

    Yes, you have misunderstood my post. I am totally committed to getting rid of the debt, I am just not massively worried about it. I certainly have no plans to add to the debt.
  • Puddylove
    Puddylove Posts: 507 Forumite
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    When I split from my financially and sexually incontinent ex, I owed about £25k (so I guess close to yours per person).
    Paid it all back, and now have savings.

    Mind you it was worth the £25k just to be free of him. :D
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 32,588 Ambassador
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    Puddylove wrote: »
    When I split from my financially and sexually incontinent ex, :D

    O u c h ..........
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • I was nearly double that. No debt now.

    Getting rid of any debt whatever your income is a good thing.
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