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on way to IVA ?

Hello All, After a few years of trying to manage my credit card debts, I finally know I need drastic help. I am considering an IVA
I am not sure if I will be allowed one, is there a limit for the amount of debt ? Is there a % of your debt that you have to pay monthly - what if you can only afford a minimal monthly payment, I know I will need advice to find out how it actually works.
I think I am 2 pay dates (months) away from default , at the moment I have never missed a payment but I can't see that continuing, as my employment may now be at risk.
I am terrified of letting everyone down, I have been trying to keep the payments going and moving money around with 0% deals etc. but I am not being offered any of those now and the interest alone is a killer.
I have joint bank accounts with OH
Our main current account is always overdrawn with LLoyds - I have a LLoyds credit card debt in my name
I also am named joint on a LLoyds account with 1 other which is a family Christmas savings account with 7 family members paying in monthly, it's not a huge amount saved in there but what would happen if I default on my main bank account and my credit card - can the bank take their money from these accounts would all these people lose their savings ?


I am also named on my mother's bank account however this is a different bank - and is all her money!
My OH also has credit card with LLoyds but he is managing his, he does not know the extent of my debt
We also have a joint mortgage
I am so disappointed, there have been many contributors to my situation, however without going into detail I am to blame, it is my debt and my family do not deserve this


I am not sleeping with worry, everything churns around in my head at 3am I feel very pathetic and so very sad, I could have had the best life I have such good people around me and I have let them all down. Sorry if this is too depressing but thank you for reading x
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  • National_Debtline
    National_Debtline Posts: 7,998 Organisation Representative
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    Hi Murphy


    I'm sorry to hear about your situation, but rest assured you are not alone. Many people have been in similar situations and you'll find lots of support on the forum. It's too soon to say whether an IVA will be a suitable option, the first thing you need to do is complete a statement of affairs (SOA)
    http://www.stoozing.com/calculator/soa.php


    If you post it back on the forum we can be more specific on your options. You'll need to format it for MSE. You can also get impartial advice from one of the free debt advice agencies.


    With regards to your banking situation, you must only bank somewhere you have no debt. This includes not having joint accounts somewhere that you owe money. You could consider having your name removed from the account, rather than everyone having to open a new account elsewhere if that's easier. I hope all goes well.


    Susie
    @natdebtline
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  • fatbelly
    fatbelly Posts: 21,752 Forumite
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    MURPHY29 wrote: »
    Hello All, After a few years of trying to manage my credit card debts, I finally know I need drastic help. I am considering an IVA
    I am not sure if I will be allowed one, is there a limit for the amount of debt ? Is there a % of your debt that you have to pay monthly - what if you can only afford a minimal monthly payment, I know I will need advice to find out how it actually works.
    I think I am 2 pay dates (months) away from default , at the moment I have never missed a payment but I can't see that continuing, as my employment may now be at risk.
    I am terrified of letting everyone down, I have been trying to keep the payments going and moving money around with 0% deals etc. but I am not being offered any of those now and the interest alone is a killer.
    I have joint bank accounts with OH
    Our main current account is always overdrawn with LLoyds - I have a LLoyds credit card debt in my name
    I also am named joint on a LLoyds account with 1 other which is a family Christmas savings account with 7 family members paying in monthly, it's not a huge amount saved in there but what would happen if I default on my main bank account and my credit card - can the bank take their money from these accounts would all these people lose their savings ?


    I am also named on my mother's bank account however this is a different bank - and is all her money!
    My OH also has credit card with LLoyds but he is managing his, he does not know the extent of my debt
    We also have a joint mortgage
    I am so disappointed, there have been many contributors to my situation, however without going into detail I am to blame, it is my debt and my family do not deserve this


    I am not sleeping with worry, everything churns around in my head at 3am I feel very pathetic and so very sad, I could have had the best life I have such good people around me and I have let them all down. Sorry if this is too depressing but thank you for reading x

    It's worrying that you are considering an IVA yet admit you do not know how they work - that is a recipe for disaster.

    I work at CAB and am now seeing people who have been missold these things and got into problems, on a weekly basis.

    It is true that an IVA would be the only form of insolvency you should consider if you are a homeowner with equity but do you really need insolvency?

    Why not complete an soa for us and then we have some detail on which to advise.

    You should not feel that you are letting people down. I see people with problem debt on a daily basis and everyone on this forum will understand the situation you are in, many of them having been (or still being) in the same situation.
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 30,188 Ambassador
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    I too would urge caution here, you are a long way off any action been taken against you, you have plenty of time to whey up your options here.

    An IVA may be appropriate, but you must research the subject like you would any major decision, lose all thought of letting folk down, things happen in life, as I know only too well, you need a clear and business like head to take this forward.

    You have not said how much you owe, so we need to know that first of all, then complete a statement of affairs so we can see what may be suitable for you.

    Link here :
    http://www.stoozing.com/calculator/soa.php
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  • MURPHY29
    MURPHY29 Posts: 24 Forumite
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    Thank you for your replies,


    I am looking at my soa now and will post here soon,
    I agree I need to approach this without haste
    I had completed an online remedy and it came back with IVA as a solution
    I think my debt total is 42k
    Can hardly believe I have just typed that :(
  • MURPHY29
    MURPHY29 Posts: 24 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    HERE GOES...
    mbna credit card is 4.9% until 2022
    the others I'm not sure of




    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b]
    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 4
    Number of children in household.........
    Number of cars owned.................... 2
    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 1295
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 1600
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2895

    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 660
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 151
    Electricity............................. 125
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 50
    Telephone (land line)................... 57
    Mobile phone............................ 95
    TV Licence.............................. 13
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 24
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 350
    Clothing................................ 50
    Petrol/diesel........................... 175
    Road tax................................ 31
    Car Insurance........................... 42
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 20
    Car parking............................. 5
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 20
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 20
    Buildings insurance..................... 15
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 45
    Other insurance......................... 20
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 40
    Haircuts................................ 30
    Entertainment........................... 100
    Holiday................................. 200
    Emergency fund.......................... 25
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2363


    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 185000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 185000


    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 130000...(660)......0
    Total secured & HP debts...... 130000....-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    MS CREDIT CARD.................8833......221.......0
    mbna credit card...............14852.....253.......4.9
    newday credit card.............2195......23........0
    LLOYDS overdraft...............2500......0.........0
    LTSB c.card....................11786.....218.......0
    barclaycard c,card.............3654......83........0
    next store card................1045......53........0
    Total unsecured debts..........44865.....851.......-


    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 2,895
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,363
    Available for debt repayments........... 532
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 851
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -319

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 185,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -130,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -44,865
    Net Assets.............................. 10,135

    Created using the SOA
  • anna_1977
    anna_1977 Posts: 862 Forumite
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    MURPHY29 wrote: »
    HERE GOES...
    mbna credit card is 4.9% until 2022
    the others I'm not sure of




    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b]
    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 4 - is this 2 adults & 2 older kids?
    Number of children in household.........
    Number of cars owned.................... 2
    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 1295
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 1600
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2895

    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 660
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 151have you spread over 12 months instead of standard 10?)
    Electricity............................. 125
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 50
    Telephone (land line)................... 57 this is very high - if not in contract change immediately
    Mobile phone............................ 95how many phones is this for? again very high
    TV Licence.............................. 13
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 24if not in contract cancel - luxury
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 350I'm sure this could be reduced, someone else will advise on this
    Clothing................................ 50
    Petrol/diesel........................... 175essential trips to work only?
    Road tax................................ 31
    Car Insurance........................... 42
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 20
    Car parking............................. 5
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 20
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 20
    Buildings insurance..................... 15
    Contents insurance...................... 0I hope this is combined with building - it is an essential
    Life assurance ......................... 45
    Other insurance......................... 20
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 40
    Haircuts................................ 30
    Entertainment........................... 100you can't afford this at the moment - cut it out or reduce significantly
    Holiday................................. 200not affordable at the moment - cut out
    Emergency fund.......................... 25
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2363


    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0 if you're paying an EF of £25 there should be something in here
    House value (Gross)..................... 185000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0you have 2 cars ? ?
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 185000


    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 130000...(660)......0
    Total secured & HP debts...... 130000....-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    MS CREDIT CARD.................8833......221.......0
    mbna credit card...............14852.....253.......4.9
    newday credit card.............2195......23........0
    LLOYDS overdraft...............2500......0.........0
    LTSB c.card....................11786.....218.......0
    barclaycard c,card.............3654......83........0
    next store card................1045......53........0
    Total unsecured debts..........44865.....851.......-


    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 2,895
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,363
    Available for debt repayments........... 532
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 851
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -319



    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 185,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -130,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -44,865
    Net Assets.............................. 10,135

    Created using the SOA

    Please see my comments in red - you can save about £400 a month cutting out things like your holiday fund, reducing phones etc.....

    Well done on facing but I think you've gone into panic mode with the IVA

    Both fatbelly and sourcrates are amazingly knowledgeable and I am sure will come back with their comments shortly

    Good luck
  • MURPHY29
    MURPHY29 Posts: 24 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    Anna1977, thank you for reply and questions


    2 adults 2 older kids - both students
    Yes that council tax should be 126 over 12 months


    in contract with BT until June and will change the landline then
    we pay for 3 mobile phones me, hubby and youngest son


    yes the home and contents are combined


    I try to save the holiday and emergency fund but end up transferring it back into the overdraft on current account most months that's why there is no balance at the moment


    Ah, I've missed off the HP on both cars, comes to £319 total monthly - OH pays both, however I wasn't thinking it should come out of his income at the top - not sure how I amend it now
  • anna_1977
    anna_1977 Posts: 862 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 500 Posts
    Hey,

    I would repost the SOA - I'm assuming you saved it on the website? Add in the extra HP payments. They really need to show to have a true reflection.

    Do you mind me asking how old the kids are?

    Well done for posting, it's a hard thing to do :)
  • MURPHY29
    MURPHY29 Posts: 24 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    thanks I will change the soa


    Not at all - 2 fab kids aged 21 and 18 :)
  • MURPHY29
    MURPHY29 Posts: 24 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    added the car payments:(


    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet[/b]
    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 2 older
    Number of cars owned.................... 2
    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 1295
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 1600
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2895

    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 660
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 319
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 151
    Electricity............................. 125
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 50
    Telephone (land line)................... 57
    Mobile phone............................ 95
    TV Licence.............................. 13
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 24
    Internet Services....................... 0
    Groceries etc. ......................... 350
    Clothing................................ 50
    Petrol/diesel........................... 175
    Road tax................................ 31
    Car Insurance........................... 42
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 20
    Car parking............................. 5
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 20
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 20
    Buildings insurance..................... 15
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 45
    Other insurance......................... 20
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 40
    Haircuts................................ 30
    Entertainment........................... 100
    Holiday................................. 200
    Emergency fund.......................... 25
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2682


    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 185000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 185000


    Secured & HP Debts

    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 130000...(660)......0
    Hire Purchase (HP) debt ...... 15000....(229)......0<
    HP van.........................3000.....(90).......0
    Total secured & HP debts...... 148000....-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    MS CREDIT CARD.................8833......221.......18.9
    mbna credit card...............14852.....253.......4.9
    newday credit card.............2195......23........0
    LLOYDS overdraft...............2500......0.........NaN
    LTSB c.card....................11786.....218.......18
    barclaycard c,card.............3654......83........18
    next store card................1045......53........18
    Total unsecured debts..........44865.....851.......-


    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 2,895
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,682
    Available for debt repayments........... 213
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 851
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -638

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 185,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -148,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -44,865
    Net Assets.............................. -7,865

    Created using the SOA calculator
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.
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