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Busy Mee's Last Leg

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  • Morning everyone. Just a quick test because I lost a very large post last weekend and it gave me the hump.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,664 Ambassador
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    Absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to end your career on a high. 
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  • themadvix
    themadvix Posts: 8,785 Forumite
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    Agreed (Beanie), but Busy Mee, don't fall into the trap of 'Just another (XX months)'. If you're good to go and work causes you that much stress, then be free - you never know what's around the corner (sorry, that sounds unduly negative - but I think this year has certainly taught us that!).

    But if you retire, don't think you (and the odds and sods) account can leave us behind - regular reports are definitely needed! :)
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  • Definitely, please don't succomb to the dreaded "One more year" syndrome. If work is stressing you out, why not try to bring your plans forward a bit more? Life really is too short x
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  • QueenJess
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    Definitely, please don't succomb to the dreaded "One more year" syndrome. If work is stressing you out, why not try to bring your plans forward a bit more? Life really is too short x
    Very sensible.  I was stuck in a job that stressed me out and I hated, but could never quite manage to leave.  They've now made me redundant and my overwhelming emotion was relief.  Do what you need to, but now is the time for you to enjoy yourselves.
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  • Suffolk_lass
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    edited 12 September 2020 at 8:54AM
    Lots of good advice above! And if you make it clear to your boss that you intend going and offer to support the new incumbent if they promote substantially, you have two possibilities - they revert you and you lose the salary gap for a few months (but your pension starts to index link from the date of reversion), or they keep you on TP on the higher salary until you go. The annual month for CPI inflation calculation is September so... by the middle of next month you will know what any indexation would be if you revert. For me, my pension was index-link increased to the point where I only missed the salary gap - the pension was as though I had the promotion substantively. Maybe your boss's attitude is the key thing. While some might really appreciate the opportunity for a planned handover, others may see it in ego terms as some sort of betrayal to them personally.

    As to the impact of retiring? I worried that I would lose my identity to some extent (successful career, wondering if I could have gone further if the cult of personality were less pervasive) but it just stopped mattering. I (we) love it and want to maximise our time together and apart, enjoying and pleasing ourselves. I still sleep like a feather but often now, right through the night (though I still wake at 0530, I often get up and revel in the traffic, knowing I don't have to). Honestly, you won't regret it!
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  • savingholmes
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    I too would be tempted to bring the retirement date forward if you are not enjoying work - and if you don't need the extra for your pension. I do think specific plans to help reduce any loss of identity are key though.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,664 Ambassador
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    No wonder no one else wants to do it!! 
    Glad that you are doing what is best for you. 
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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