We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Parental Responsibility

2»

Comments

  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    venison wrote: »
    IIRC students under 25 who are estranged from their parent(s) are treated as independent and e.g parental income is not counted when applying for student loans and in this case grants, as above she will only ever make a repayment when she is earning above 21k a year and you will never be responsible for her student debt. I'm baffled as to why they might owe her money as she appears never to have earn enough to make a payment.


    Parents will never be responsible for her debt anyway, regardless of whether she was independent when she applied or not.
  • ViolaLass wrote: »
    Parents will never be responsible for her debt anyway, regardless of whether she was independent when she applied or not.

    Which was exactly the point I made, perhaps I muddied the waters by talking about independent students?
  • Yes I am baffled as well as to how they owe her money, which is why I think she has not contacted them. Unfortunately she lies about a lot of things, which is why I am worried.
  • Kenk wrote: »
    She has never repaid any of her loan and inspite of getting a 2.1 in Forensic Chemistry has always maintained that she never wants to work and indeed her current job is just enough for her to keep claiming benefits....

    You should get her to join MSE. There are a few boards she would fit right in!
  • nyermen
    nyermen Posts: 1,148 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Sorry it's a sad story :(

    For what it's worth, if you have an outstanding student loan, a partner (even through marriage) isn't liable, so there's no way you as a parent would ever be.
    Peter

    Debt free - finally finished paying off £20k + Interest.
  • TBagpuss
    TBagpuss Posts: 11,237 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    As others have said, you are not, and will not be, liable.

    When she applied she would have been asked to provide contact details for 2 people who the SLC could contact to locate her , it sounds as though that is what happened. Your daughter would have been the one who originally gave them your name and address, for that specific purpose, so it isn't really reasonable of her to be annoyed that you did so.

    And if she is below the point where she would have to start repaying then she isn't disadvantaged by them having her address.

    It's possible that, if she hasn't kept them updated with her contact details that they have been trying to get money from her. I am not sure whether it is still the same now, but when I had a student loan they sent a form out every year which you had to complete to confirm that you were still eligible to defer. If that's still the case, and she didn't update them, they may have pursued her for money and she may think they out to pay her back...

    But either way it's not your responsibility.
    All posts are my personal opinion, not formal advice Always get proper, professional advice (particularly about anything legal!)
  • I'm not sure if the not earning enough do not have to pay them back argument stands if you have dodged all contact for years ?
  • mobileron
    mobileron Posts: 1,218 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    its not really a loan,its a grant. Its not counted as credit, check Experian.
    And about 80% of people never pay it back,due to not earning above the threshold etc.
    You are not liable.
  • National_Debtline
    National_Debtline Posts: 7,998 Organisation Representative
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi Kenk


    According to the dates in your original post, your daughter would have been at university in the mid-2000s and so any student loan would fall under the current system, whereby repayments are recovered automatically from PAYE salary above a certain threshold (currently £17,775 per annum) which she has presumably never reached. From SLC's point of view, recouping no payments over this time may have prompted them to enquire as to whether she is perhaps self-employed and earning enough to be capable of repayments after all. While she's on a low income, there won't be much they can do regardless of whether they locate and/or contact her.


    Several posters above has made this very clear already but I may as well reiterate it - you are no more liable than I am.


    Dennis
    @natdebtline
    We work as money advisers for National Debtline and have specific permission from MSE to post to try to help those in debt. Read more information on National Debtline in MSE's Debt Problems: What to do and where to get help guide. If you find you're struggling with debt and need further help try our online advice tool My Money Steps
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 353.5K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455K Spending & Discounts
  • 246.6K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 602.9K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.1K Life & Family
  • 260.6K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.