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Mortgage help for children

sunnyflower
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Hope some people can share their knowledge please.
My son and girlfriend are planning to buy a shared ownership house. We agreed to lend them the deposit of 7k. However, during the search the lenders realised that my son has a car loan and wanted an increased deposit of 11k.
This will be a big chunk of our savings.
I looked into the Nationwide Family Deposit Scheme, but we would have to borrow at least 25k and pay back over 18 years (when I'm 75).
Is there a cheaper / simpler way of releasing our equity or otherwise helping them ?
Thanks
My son and girlfriend are planning to buy a shared ownership house. We agreed to lend them the deposit of 7k. However, during the search the lenders realised that my son has a car loan and wanted an increased deposit of 11k.
This will be a big chunk of our savings.
I looked into the Nationwide Family Deposit Scheme, but we would have to borrow at least 25k and pay back over 18 years (when I'm 75).
Is there a cheaper / simpler way of releasing our equity or otherwise helping them ?
Thanks
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Lend them the deposit?
Will you be signing a form to say that its a gift, and they will then pay it back "off the books' so to speak? Because i think if you let the mortgage co know its a loan, that could be an issue.0 -
Have a look at the Barclays Springboard mortgage..... Pay the deposit into a savings account instead, you will gain interest and after 3 years, you can withdraw all the money. This will allow your son and his girlfriend to get a 100% mortgage. Obviously dependent on meeting Barclays lending criteria.
https://www.barclays.co.uk/mortgages/family-springboard-mortgage/
https://intermediaries.uk.barclays/lending-criteria
*As pointed out by kingstreet below, this is not available on shared ownership properties.0 -
Be careful.
Many 'helping hand' schemes aren't accepted on shared ownership.
Is it a newbuild? If it is, Nationwide's minimum deposit is 15% of the purchase price of the share for a house, 25 % for a flat.I am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.0 -
This plan isnt going to help him, its just giving you some of his rent and probably getting him stuck in a house he cant get out of.0
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AnotherJoe wrote: »Lend them the deposit?
Will you be signing a form to say that its a gift, and they will then pay it back "off the books' so to speak? Because i think if you let the mortgage co know its a loan, that could be an issue.
It's not a formal arrangement, he's going to pay it back as and when. I'm assuming that the lenders asked him this.0 -
This plan isnt going to help him, its just giving you some of his rent and probably getting him stuck in a house he cant get out of.0
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sunnyflower wrote: »It's not a formal arrangement, he's going to pay it back as and when. I'm assuming that the lenders asked him this.0
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