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Scared to tell my partner
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Hi Rachel.
I too messed up twice... my partner also helped me by sorting out how to pay, ( I’m still paying back 1st lot on a monthly arrangement that I am sticking too). But I get very depressed and spend on credit cards to cheer me up.. not realising I am getting deeper into debt. So it got to £2500 this time and he found a statement so that is how he found out. To be honest I felt relieved when he found out this time because I knew I needed help. I also knew I would lose him this time. But he stuck by me and said he loves me too much to let go even though he is hurt that I betrayed him. We have now made another arrangement and I am seeking professional help for my issues. I know how you feel and I pray your partner will kind of understand and help you.
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