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Advice needed please
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Unfortunately you will not qualify for any other debt solution except bankruptcy as you literally have no disposable income to pay anything with.
No amount of budget fiddling will change this.
How are you servicing these debts at present, presumably by further credit ?I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter0 -
Check on a benefits calculator. Putting in your details I believe you should be entitled to tax credits and child benefit of over £150 per week. M2m.Frugal Living Challenge 2026.
Living on £8000. £843.68/£8000.
Saving extra £365, interest beater challenge. £10.01/£3650 -
Not wanting to sound harsh but you’re living beyond your means. (Although I see a lot worse)
By all means contact a debt advice charity but they will advocate bankruptcy if you’re unable to increase your income/decrease your expenditure. A DMP is not an option as you have no disposable income.
£100 per month in benefits, is this correct? You need to check you’re receiving everything you’re entitled to. Child benefit/working tax credit/child tax credit.
You can check your entitlement here https://www.entitledto.co.ukDebt Collection Agent
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If not all the debts are in your name alone, can you tag them me, ptnr, joint?
loan
santander
mbna
dfs
mum
storecard
halifax cc
lloyds cc
Tesco cc2
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OP says that the child comes to them every other week-end, so not a resident. Does this mean your OH lost her custody battle?Child benefit is more than £100 a month for 2 children.
You're in a difficult situation because even if she did go back to work, she would have to pay child maintenance so indeed, between childcare cost and maintenance, there probably wouldn't be much left if at all to go on the bills.0 -
Ring the debt charities as suggested. Avoid bankruptcy if you possibly can. You should be entitled to more benefits than you are getting.Unimaginativeusername wrote: »Not wanting to sound harsh but you’re living beyond your means. (Although I see a lot worse)
By all means contact a debt advice charity but they will advocate bankruptcy if you’re unable to increase your income/decrease your expenditure. A DMP is not an option as you have no disposable income.
£100 per month in benefits, is this correct? You need to check you’re receiving everything you’re entitled to. Child benefit/working tax credit/child tax credit.
You can check your entitlement here https://www.entitledto.co.uk
The OP stated they work overtime.
If their P60 shown income of higher than the SOA stated, they will of course be entitled to less/no tax credits, although they should be entitled to claim for child benefit for 2 children at any rate.
In debt and looking for help? Look here for the MSE Debt Help Guide.
Also, If you need any free and impartial debt advice, the National Debtline, Stepchange, and the CAB can help.0 -
Not really ideal but is there a possibility of your partner getting a 0 hour contract or similar, for evening work every other week? It won’t bring much in but even a little bit could drastically improve your situation. I know she has to be available for the two children and especially her daughter due to the difficult custody situation but this way she could pick up a couple of shifts here and there and give you a helping hand.
Alternatively you need to get a better paying job. Easier said than done, I know, but your budget cannot stretch to cover the shortfall unfortunately.Debt Totals July 2019::
[STRIKE]£350 Natwest Credit Card [/STRIKE]/ ]Now £0 (paid off and closed 04/2017) £15,500 postgrad loan from parents/ Now £7,000 £5,000 sister loan/ Now £0[STRIKE]£500 train ticket loan from parents [/STRIKE]/ Now £0 (paid off 16/02/18)[STRIKE]£2,000 Overdraft[/STRIKE] Now £0 (paid off 09/03/18) £1,967.83 Barclays 0% card Now £0 Total £7,0000 -
Don't discount the ways of saving on each item.
While at the moment you have a large debt, there will be a time when you are back to solvency and having learned to reduce your outgoings to below your incomings will be a fantastic feeling then.
For help with everyday spending (food etc) nip over to the moneysaving old style board.0
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