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Considering Bankruptcy - So scared :(

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  • Moos_Mummy
    Moos_Mummy Posts: 28 Forumite
    edited 4 September 2017 at 1:54PM
    I have another question if anyone is able to help me please:


    About a year ago, my mum paid off my loan of approx £11,000 but my debts have still continued to spiral out of control. Is this going to be frowned upon? I have seen it mentioned that it might be classed as 'favouring a lender'. Of course it wasn't, I assumed that my debt problems were going to get better but then I moved in to a new house and other stuff. Obviously at the time I had no idea I would be heading for bankruptcy. What might happen in this case?


    I must admit, some of my debts are due to gambling but not the majority or anything. I will be as opena dn honest as I can. I just dont want to end in prison for anything like fraud (even though I dont think I have committed fraud or anything) :-/


    I'm just finding this all so stressful and scary - I want to get the ball rolling but I go on holiday in 2 weeks (paid for by my parents might I add due to the stressful year we have all had).


    Just dont really know where to start. Literally living off credit at the mo :(


    Thanks in advance xxx
  • sourcrates
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    Just be honest with the OR thats all you can do.

    It may be questioned, but as long as you answer truthfully, you should be ok.
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  • Mouse007
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    Moos_Mummy wrote: »
    About a year ago, my mum paid off my loan of approx £11,000 but my debts have still continued to spiral out of control. Is this going to be frowned upon? I have seen it mentioned that it might be classed as 'favouring a lender'. Of course it wasn't, I assumed that my debt problems were going to get better but then I moved in to a new house and other stuff. Obviously at the time I had no idea I would be heading for bankruptcy. What might happen in this case?

    You didn't "favour a lender", your Mum did and she can do what she likes. It would have possibly been a different matter if you had paid off the loan, but you didn't. Don't worry about this.

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  • Mouse007 wrote: »
    You didn't "favour a lender", your Mum did and she can do what she likes. It would have possibly been a different matter if you had paid off the loan, but you didn't. Don't worry about this.


    Thanks Mouse007, I'm starting to feel a lot more positive and less scared about declaring myself bankrupt.


    Thanks to everyone that has replied! xxx
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