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Parent lending/gifting 50% of property price

jagnew1234
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Hi, I am wanting to lend/gift my child half of the cost of a house and he will get a morguage for the other half to help get him onto the property ladder. What are the pitfalls. I would still like to retain a charge on the property in case any future partner of my son tries to claim half the house. Is this a thing that solicitors and morguage companies are used to dealing with. I am thinking of 50/50 on a house worth around £120,000.
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Well which is it? Are you gifting him £60k or lending him £60k? If you are lending him the money that will reduce the number of lenders willing to give him a mortgage on the other hand if it is a gift it will be less of an issue.0
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The imposition of a charge on the property would be an issue for lenders. As would pose an issue should they wish to force a sale.0
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money and family shouldn't mix, what if you fall out with your son, good luck getting back the share back.
Putting charge on properties is something lenders frown upon as are loans. You cannot call it a gift and then recall the loan, it's called mortgage fraud"It is prudent when shopping for something important, not to limit yourself to Pound land/Estate Agents"
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Don't be such a control freak, just gift the money if you can afford it, especially if your estate is likely to be paying IHT.0
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You need to decide whether you want to gift your son the money, or lend it, as mentioned above.
I think as well you need to consider carefully whether you want to do it if you're worried about him having a potential relationship break down etc. People get into long term relationships hoping they will last after all, and when you spend any length of time living together (especially if children are involved) and looking/paying for a house and its bills together, the other party does invest something.
Perhaps you could just help out with the deposit and let him do the rest on his own?0 -
There are lenders who may do this but not all of them. It's probably worth speaking to a broker and a solicitor to confirm your rights.I am a Mortgage AdviserYou should note that this site doesn't check my status as a mortgage adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.0
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Few lenders will allow you to put a charge against the property, but they are out there.
Engage a good mortgage broker to guide you through this.I am a Mortgage Broker
You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.0
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