Employer home visit whilst off sick?

motorguy

Unimaginativeusername wrote: »

I've been signed off sick from work by my GP for almost 9 weeks now with depression, something I've suffered with for many years but the loss of my only parent last year sent me over the edge and my job was just exacerbating the problem. I'm taking my medication as prescribed but i feel no better and certainly do not want to go back to work yet. This week i have been informed (via text, apparently they've sent a letter to my old address even though i updated my details when i moved) that my employer wants to come and do a home visit, not exactly sure what this is for?

(Not sure if I'm allowed to name my employer, it rhymes with bapita)

I find it very difficult to talk about my issues with people and the fact my flatmate is always in the house and i am now panicking about this home visit. Do i have to agree to this, can we agree to meet somewhere else, can i just ignore it and keep sending in my fit notes?

It's payday on the 27th and I'm worried if i haven't spoken to them and arranged this visit that i wont get paid (i get company sick pay). Can they do this?

Any advice would be gratefully received, many thanks.

As an aside, if your medication isnt working after 9 weeks, you need to talk to your doctor. Whilst depression may be a long term illness, you need to be able to function.

jbond

custardy wrote: »

I have been more blunt that most likely will be.
I speak from experience of managing sick absence. So I'll be honest its less touchy feely.
You have been off 9 weeks,you are on prescribed meds and say you are no better.
From a well being point of view,what you have done so far hasnt helped( I appreciate grief is individual and 2 months isnt long) so why would you think continuing the same will help?

You might have experience of managing sickness absense 'custardy', but that does NOT mean you were particularly good at it, does it?
I'm not saying that you weren't good at your job, but this line:

"Have you refused to attend meetings at work? If you can meet 'somewhere else' then why not at work?"

Indicates to me a slight lack of awareness of people who develope psychological issues (possibly due to work being a contributory factor). I don't think someone who was fully aware of issues like that, would really have to ask that type of question?

custardy

jbond wrote: »

You might have experience of managing sickness absense 'custardy', but that does NOT mean you were particularly good at it, does it?
I'm not saying that you weren't good at your job, but this line:

"Have you refused to attend meetings at work? If you can meet 'somewhere else' then why not at work?"

Indicates to me a slight lack of awareness of people who develope psychological issues (possibly due to work being a contributory factor). I don't think someone who was fully aware of issues like that, would really have to ask that type of question?

Chip on your shoulder much?
The OP hasnt given the info. If they have been asked to attend meetings at work,then if they refused it is very pertinent to their course of action and options available.
The OP hasnt quantified if a meeting at work was even offered. The OP works for a large employer with multiple offices. Workplace doesnt have to mean where they usually work.
As I said,drop the chip and deal in facts.

Given you are obviously better at this than me,whats your advice for the OP?

Kynthia

A good employer will keep in contact with staff who are off sick. It shouldn't be too frequent as that could feel like harassment, but too infrequent can feel like being ignored. This contact helps keep you in the loop, let's them know how you are doing, and hopefully helps you ease back into work when the time is ready.

My work policy states that the meeting doesn't have to be in the employee's home if they'd prefer somewhere else so that shouldn't be a problem. Just explain about the fact you have a flatmate and that work or a quiet cafe might be better.