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  • Sheep
    Sheep Posts: 219 Forumite
    What is this YNAB?
  • Sheep wrote: »
    What is this YNAB?

    https://www.youneedabudget.com/

    Over that last 12 months it's helped to pay almost all our debt off, and save towards an emergency fund.
    YNAB is my new best friend. :)
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,644 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Happier_Me wrote: »
    I am trying to be really good at the minute. But one of our downfalls is 'the quick nip to the shops for xyz' thing.

    I've done this today for toilet roll and chips. Came back with toilet roll and chips (who is a miracle in itself) but also bought the following:

    Pair of jeans for DD (in the sale)
    Peanut M & M's (obviously these are a need, not a want)
    Cherry Bakewells
    Cookies
    Paraceptomol
    Crisps
    A drink for DD
    Flapjacks

    Result: I'm poorer, fatter and feel slightly nauseous.:o

    Not sure what the answer is really, but I don't do this all the time so I do have some self control. At work I spend very little mainly because I take just a couple of pounds with me each week, so I can't buy much even if I wanted too. Might be worth limiting your access to money to see if this helps.

    Have you tried just taking cash and a list if too much to remember.

    When you pick something up think to yourself "do you need xyz".
  • Happier_Me
    Happier_Me Posts: 563 Forumite
    DCFC79 wrote: »
    Have you tried just taking cash and a list if too much to remember.

    When you pick something up think to yourself "do you need xyz".

    Oh I know I shouldn't do this and usually I am fairly well behaved when I go shopping. And I did ask myself if I needed everything I picked up today and obviously at the time I convinced myself I did:D
  • January2015
    January2015 Posts: 2,369 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Another confirmed convert to YNAB here. It's totally changed how we manage and view our money. I can't imagine life without YNAB now.
    DFW Nerd No. 1484 LBM 07/01/15 Debt was £95k :eek: Now debt free and happy :j
  • enjoyyourshoes
    enjoyyourshoes Posts: 1,093 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    YNAB- why pay for something when you can create your own on a piece of paper or/& Excel?

    Have a look at your life and work out your long term goals and try to put theses into financial terms and set your self a SMART objective to achieve this.

    Discuss with partner, try top get them on board to do same , if unachievable, get new partner.

    Spending-stop yourself and ask do I NEED this or merely WANT it? Stop spending on wants, wait 24 hours before you buy to assist answering the Q.

    Saving- start simply with a 6% regular saver, then progress into considering how investing (not saving) can assist in your long term goals.
    Debt is a symptom, solve the problem.
  • Anoneemoose
    Anoneemoose Posts: 2,276 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    edited 6 March 2017 at 9:25AM
    YNAB- why pay for something when you can create your own on a piece of paper or/& Excel?

    Have a look at your life and work out your long term goals and try to put theses into financial terms and set your self a SMART objective to achieve this.

    Discuss with partner, try top get them on board to do same , if unachievable, get new partner.

    Spending-stop yourself and ask do I NEED this or merely WANT it? Stop spending on wants, wait 24 hours before you buy to assist answering the Q.

    Saving- start simply with a 6% regular saver, then progress into considering how investing (not saving) can assist in your long term goals.

    I do agree with this to a certain extent. However, we used to have a spreadsheet system as well as an app, but the problem was, even though we had our 'surplus' income sitting in an account, it was so easy to think it was just 'spare' and not really think about spending. Since using YNAB, that has changed, pretty much overnight.

    Obviously it might be worth OP having a go at doing his/her own thing first.
  • Sheep
    Sheep Posts: 219 Forumite
    Thats exactly what I intend to do.

    We have alot of debt and high outgoings. I earn a good wage but after all the debt is taken I have £600 per month left over.

    I am going to challenge myself to live on 200 per month (all i need to pay for really is fuel and lunch food) and put 400 per month towards the debts.

    Day one.... lets see how we get on!
  • YNAB- why pay for something when you can create your own on a piece of paper or/& Excel?

    Have a look at your life and work out your long term goals and try to put theses into financial terms and set your self a SMART objective to achieve this.

    Discuss with partner, try top get them on board to do same , if unachievable, get new partner.

    Spending-stop yourself and ask do I NEED this or merely WANT it? Stop spending on wants, wait 24 hours before you buy to assist answering the Q.

    Saving- start simply with a 6% regular saver, then progress into considering how investing (not saving) can assist in your long term goals.

    Because most people are not accountants and are put off by confusing speadsheets and having to write stuff down. YNAB puts those tools in a package that's easy to use, easy to access and really doesn't cost that much (about £3 month), which will more than pay for it self in the first month of using...
    LBM Oct'16 at [STRIKE]£51,264[/STRIKE]
    Jan '17 [STRIKE]£25,059[/STRIKE] (Sold car)
    May '17 £19,349
    DFD Projection [STRIKE]Dec '18[/STRIKE] Aug '18
    Gazelle Intensity!
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