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Dan's desperate dash towards solvency

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  • Great to have an update and that you are still smashing that debt!

    I love closing an account so nice to get the little ones gone.

    Good luck with the next few months of debt busting
  • Well done Dan...4K is fantastic progress.
    paydbx2025 #26 £890/£5000 . Mortgage start £148k June 23 - now £138k.
    2025 savings challenge £0/£2000
    EF £140. Savings 2 £30.00. 17
  • MeenaM
    MeenaM Posts: 320 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    well done ! I have read most of the first entries of your diary so i may have misunderstood but i really hope your wife is now shouldering more of the responsibility of getting out of debt, it causes so much anxiety and stress on the one spouse who is trying to manage it all, it is a joint responsibility when you are married there are no my debt or my problem it is our debt and our problem and we both have to sort it out and face up to the figures i am going through this atm with my husband and it drives me nuts that he doesnt want to know stuff but yet is happy for me to sort it all out , he sounds just like your wife .

    keep focused on the outcome and your future you will get there
    paid off £27,527.47 debt free journey began Nov 2017 DEBT FREE 13.09.2019!! EF £3500/£5000
  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,367 Forumite
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    Great post Dan. Would you be up for doing an updated SOA in March? It is about six months since you last did one (round about post 175 or so) - to keep your journey visible and your priorities in line with your debt?

    I agree about having some treats in our lives. Very important to keep us positive
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £9586.01 out of £6000 after August (158.45%)
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £2135.07/£3000 or 71.17% of my annual spend so far
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
    My new diary is here
  • LabRatty
    LabRatty Posts: 74 Forumite
    Congratulations Dan, lovely to see you so on top of things and planning a couple of treats too.

    All the best, LR
    Save In 2018 #109
  • worriedDan
    worriedDan Posts: 262 Forumite
    So I haven't posted for a couple of months..... I am back somewhat sheepishly.

    After a great start over the last 12 months, we have slightly fallen off the wagon over the last couple of months. We haven't added to the debts, however we have not paid off anywhere near as much as planned.

    There are some extenuating circumstances.... My father was taken ill and spend a period of time in hospital. This coincided with a very busy spell for me at work, along with a few other minor issues that we had to deal with. I am afraid that we have lived the last 7-8 weeks in a state of dis organised chaos, and our finances have reflected this.

    So, things are more settled now. My dad is better and work is starting to calm down... so time to get back on the wagon. It's interesting that my feelings of stress and anxiety have increased significantly over the past month, so this is a huge reason to get back on top of things.

    I guess it was inevitable that we would have the odd hiccup along the way and this appears to be the first one for us!
  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,367 Forumite
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    Welcome back Dan. I know what you mean - my diet has gone to pot with work related pressure and I have put on a few unwanted pounds that need to go. You might find doing a Statement of Affairs will help you to be more accountable. We had a similar thing last year when my lovely Mum was ill and I did a few trips to Scotland to fill in while my more-local Sister took a bit of a break. Played havoc with the fuel budget!
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £9586.01 out of £6000 after August (158.45%)
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £2135.07/£3000 or 71.17% of my annual spend so far
    I also Reverse Meal Plan on that thread and grow much of our own premium price fruit and veg, joining in on the Grow your own thread
    My new diary is here
  • triple_choc_chip
    triple_choc_chip Posts: 1,139 Forumite
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    Hey, worriedDan, thanks for posting the rough as well as the smooth and keeping it real. I guess you must have more than £20k paid off now? A massive achievement not to be forgotten during the tough periods. Hope your dad continues to improve, keep on keeping on, only 6 weeks to the summer break.
    TTC
    Debt Free 🍾 since 6.8.13 £31,997
    Saving for 🎄 🎁 2025 £500/£800 62.5%
    6 mth 🆘 fund £6k
    Mortgage offset fund £24.7k/£39.4k 62.7%
    It turns out the answer to my problems wasn’t at the bottom of this tub of ice-cream, 🍨 but the important thing is that I tried...
  • worriedDan
    worriedDan Posts: 262 Forumite
    Hi,

    I have just been looking at how much we have paid off. At the start of our journey I didn't correctly calculate our total debts. In hindsight we owed about 63K if I factor in some 'little' debts that my wife had. We are not down to 47k so 16k paid off. We should have cleared more than 20K by now be we became a little 'derailed' a couple of months ago.

    Things are back on track now and I am pleased that we have cleared at least a chunk. At 20% APR that 16K that we have cleared could be costing us £266 per month!!!

    In September my wife is returning to work full time. I also move up to the next salary scale. My £122 tax debt payments is coming to an end. These three things will create an additional £400 for us. We are going to pay this straight off the debts.,

    I have struggled with it all since the Spring. I think that it just started to get boring. I have just read through some of my earlier posts and I definitely don;'t want to go back to where I was.

    My next aim is to clear at least another 10K by the new year.
  • Hi worriedDan
    16k is still impressive, when I was clearing my debt, it took me two years to pay £16k! You're right, it does get tiresome, but then it's exciting to see the progress too.

    Well done, you'll get there in your own time. :)
    Debt Free 🍾 since 6.8.13 £31,997
    Saving for 🎄 🎁 2025 £500/£800 62.5%
    6 mth 🆘 fund £6k
    Mortgage offset fund £24.7k/£39.4k 62.7%
    It turns out the answer to my problems wasn’t at the bottom of this tub of ice-cream, 🍨 but the important thing is that I tried...
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