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thanks pixie
I think I will wait for him to get the full balance and make sure that she has been paying and get copy of all the signed paperwork etc
Then check to see how much we can go up to, to be honest I think well we can keep paying forever only to cover the 50% or offer them say 30% and go up to 50% if they would accept, but won't go beyond that as currently its token payments on 0% so will just stay on that if that is the case2007 £1749
2008 £291.99
2009 JanMasscara £7.00 Feb megcabot books x 2 £20 XFactor tkts x 2 £58.00 (couldn't go though as they only phoned on day :-( ) foundation £7.99
total so far for 09 £92.990 -
there is a token payment being made currently with 0% interest
therefore the debt will take longer than he, (my husband) /she (his ex wife), will live to pay it off
so I guess they will have to remain attached by this loan0 -
Unless they will change their mind and refuse to collect the token payment. They can do that if they smell that he could pay off more.
obviously the agreement was made in writing from the lender, so it quite clearly states x pays £ and y pays £ on a set date each month.
They are jointly responsible and she is certainly not going to be in a position to pay more.
Have written to request all the paperwork, as there is a strong suspicion that she extended the loan/changed the rates/term etc whilst he was in hospital for 6 months
If that's the case then we will be pressing for F&FS or taking it further as a joint loan I would like to think would have to be signed by both parties2007 £1749
2008 £291.99
2009 JanMasscara £7.00 Feb megcabot books x 2 £20 XFactor tkts x 2 £58.00 (couldn't go though as they only phoned on day :-( ) foundation £7.99
total so far for 09 £92.990 -
obviously the agreement was made in writing from the lender, so it quite clearly states x pays £ and y pays £ on a set date each month.
They are jointly responsible and she is certainly not going to be in a position to pay more.
While the token agreement now puts the both on the hook for the same amount fo money, I am more than sure that lender reserved the right to revisit it at any given time. And that may happen whenever one of them applies for new financial instrument for example, and then they may simply come only after your husband for the payments, ignoring his ex.
Something that you both should keep in mind when deiciding what to do going forward. If having this loom over his head is crippling to your new life together then maybe taking the hit and settling the loan on your own is a way to resolve it.Have written to request all the paperwork, as there is a strong suspicion that she extended the loan/changed the rates/term etc whilst he was in hospital for 6 months
If that's the case then we will be pressing for F&FS or taking it further as a joint loan I would like to think would have to be signed by both parties0 -
will wait for the paperwork and go from there as she has done a lot of underhand stuff so we will wait and see once we have the paperwork
We are also dealing with tax credits as well so all a bit of a mess really2007 £1749
2008 £291.99
2009 JanMasscara £7.00 Feb megcabot books x 2 £20 XFactor tkts x 2 £58.00 (couldn't go though as they only phoned on day :-( ) foundation £7.99
total so far for 09 £92.990
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