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SOA advice please

Freddiesmum
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Hi I'm new today and need a bit of help please. I have over £10k of debt and need to start sorting it out. I think my only options are DRO or BR. I'm trying to do my SOA. I've had a terrible 18 months health wise and would love to take a little break later in the year, is this something I am allowed to account for? I just wondered if it is a little indulgent considering my finances. Thank you in advance
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BR is a drastic step, and should really be considered as a last resort. Start out by posting your SOA on here, folk will be happy to make suggestions as to how you can begin to tackle the problem.0
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For £10k of debt BR is about drastic, it can normally be controlled on a DMP. A break is not frowned upon as sometimes needed to unwind health wise which will make you stronger to succeed. A break in the UK is ok, a break in Spain for example is a no no when trying to climb out of debt.0
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WillyWonga wrote: »A break in the UK is ok, a break in Spain for example is a no no when trying to climb out of debt.0
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I personally would solve the debt problem, then save for the little treat.
Otherwise the habits that got you into the debt have not been resolved/solved.Debt is a symptom, solve the problem.0 -
We're currently paying off a similar amount of debt. Have paid off around £4k already. Whilst paying this off we have been away a couple of times. Some would prefer to throw any spare money on the debt, others are happy to pay it off slower and enjoy a little more on the journey. I'm definitely the latter. We budget for a holiday, save for it and make sure we pay it with saved money and not add to the debt. We usually head somewhere like Center Parcs (term time......far cheaper) and eat in mostly during that week. We usually have 1 meal out as a treat. We've got our next trip already booked and paid for in full.
Someone mentioned going abroad is a no. I disagree. Though we haven't been abroad for years, (seems too much like hardwork with very young children personally!), it can work out cheaper than holidaying in the UK if you find good deals.
I would recommend posting your soa here. You will get plenty of suggestions about the best way to tackle your debt.Starting a new debt free journeyStarting Debt: £5,250Current Debt: £4,995.50Amount Paid: £254.50 Percentage Paid: 4.84%Emergency Fund: £3500 -
Why do you think a debt relief order or bankruptcy is the only option? Are you unable to make minimum payments? I would suggest you post an soa here so we can give you the right advice for your situation. If you go down the dmp or bankruptcy route this has a severe effect on your credit rating and seems extreme for £10k of debt unless you are on a very low income or unemployed.
Spending on a holiday is something which would need to be budgeted and saved for and this would depend on your income and outgoings. If this is likely to be a long term plan to repay the debt then a small holiday fund is not unreasonable. Maybe a caravan or cottage holiday in the UK or cheap package holiday depending on your budget. Personally I would prefer to be debt free before paying out on holidays but some would rather delay paying it off to allow them some money for extras like holidays. Whichever route you choose you should save for it and not borrow.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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