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  • Masomnia
    Masomnia Posts: 19,506 Forumite
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    Olivia111 wrote: »
    Sorry only getting back to you now.

    She is going to ring first thing tomorrow and try and change it. hopefully they will but if they don't just hope they say good things about her.

    Thanks for all the help.

    I agree with the previous posters. If it was me and I got that call asking me not to contact the referee it would be a warning sign; even if they do say nice things I'd be wondering why she didn't want me to ask them.
    “I could see that, if not actually disgruntled, he was far from being gruntled.” - P.G. Wodehouse
  • ohreally
    ohreally Posts: 7,525 Forumite
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    Or alternatively it may ring alarm bells.

    This ^.

    Leave well alone now.
    Don’t be a can’t, be a can.
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