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How many times have you left a job because of the boss?

I was helping a friend out with his CV recently. He has had trouble finding a job for a few months now and looking at his CV, one of the problems is that he job hops a lot. In the past 3 years he has had 7 jobs, all within the professional space. For most of them, he tells me it's because he manager was not very nice, there is no development etc.

I started thinking about my experiences and why I have left jobs. Back when I was working in retail, I have only left jobs because of education or moving onto something better. Since then, I am on my third job in the professional space. First I left because of my boss. I was contemplating leaving anyway because of the low salary but my boss was so terrible I had to go.

I have had terrible bosses in the past but that was the only time someone drove me to leave.
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  • xapprenticex
    xapprenticex Posts: 1,760 Forumite
    Never have.

    Your friend needs to understand that he is there to do a job, not like the boss or be liked by the boss. If you become friends with the boss then great, but it wont always happen.
  • I was helping a friend out with his CV recently. He has had trouble finding a job for a few months now and looking at his CV, one of the problems is that he job hops a lot. In the past 3 years he has had 7 jobs, all within the professional space. For most of them, he tells me it's because he manager was not very nice, there is no development etc.

    I started thinking about my experiences and why I have left jobs. Back when I was working in retail, I have only left jobs because of education or moving onto something better. Since then, I am on my third job in the professional space. First I left because of my boss. I was contemplating leaving anyway because of the low salary but my boss was so terrible I had to go.

    I have had terrible bosses in the past but that was the only time someone drove me to leave.
    I hope you told your friend that it is more likely him than his bosses that are the problem!
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  • ERICS_MUM
    ERICS_MUM Posts: 3,579 Forumite
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    Once in my 40 year career. I had several managers who I didn't like or vice versa but I just got on with it, tried to work out how I could improve the situation etc.
  • I've never left because of a boss tbh, even though the last 3 were morons
  • Lily-Rose_3
    Lily-Rose_3 Posts: 2,732 Forumite
    In the past 3 years he has had 7 jobs, all within the professional space. For most of them, he tells me it's because he manager was not very nice,

    I don't think there's a person alive who hasn't had a nasty boss who has annoyed them/upset them/made them feel like carp. And I am sure some people have left because of a nasty boss.

    But if your 'friend' has left because of a boss SEVEN TIMES, then I would seriously be questioning if it was something to do with him, not them.
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  • xapprenticex
    xapprenticex Posts: 1,760 Forumite
    Lily-Rose wrote: »
    I don't think there's a person alive who hasn't had a nasty boss who has annoyed them/upset them/made them feel like carp....

    Wow, that sounds extreme, you mean they are made to fell like a fish at the bottom of the barrel? Interesting symbolism.
  • Lily-Rose_3
    Lily-Rose_3 Posts: 2,732 Forumite
    Wow, that sounds extreme, you mean they are made to fell like a fish at the bottom of the barrel? Interesting symbolism.

    :rotfl::T

    Didn't wanna offend folk by saying a rude-ish word! :p
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  • Apparently the stat is 40% of people leave their job because of their boss

    I've left one job (of 6 years) because I had a new manager who decided he wanted to micro manage me. Left for a 20℅ pay rise so it wasn't all bad.
  • Lily-Rose_3
    Lily-Rose_3 Posts: 2,732 Forumite
    Apparently the stat is 40% of people leave their job because of their boss.

    I've left one job (of 6 years) because I had a new manager who decided he wanted to micro manage me. Left for a 20℅ pay rise so it wasn't all bad.

    I can believe that.

    What I can't get my head around, is that happening seven times in 3 years.
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  • Dird
    Dird Posts: 2,703 Forumite
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    Only had 3 jobs since leaving uni, 4 if you include part time work at uni. Never left one due to a manager.
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