Fall too Pieces

Seasidegal58

Hope the money has been sorted out Scott.

Scott_Weiland_2

Re the snow it was horrendous i was on a driving which got pulled as there was cars sliding all over the shop. I live in county durham very very high up we get battered by snow lol.

Re the missing money nope i have to wait untill the 16th for it. Work have said its now being fixed going forward and everything is sorted re the missing pay but i have to wait till the 16th for it.

I am not assumed.

JoJoC

I bet you're not amused - I don't know how they can justify making you wait so long for YOUR OWN MONEY! I assume if you got bank charges or any adverse issue due to not having the funds to pay your bills, they'd compensate?

Shocking.

That level of snow sounds fun (although not on a driving lesson). I'm still like a kid when it comes to snow, providing I don't need to get to work or be anywhere

Scott_Weiland_2

Would they !!!! jojoc lol i wont name which bank i work for but they are !!!!!!! useless.

I am behind on my rent and council tax thanks to this its my new tl she is useless, i came close to telling her to go forth and multiply on friday when she said she came in on her day off to sort my pay.

Personal life at the moment is a mess i am freaked out to hell. New J mentioned the 4 letter L word after 10tens, then started talking about me moving in after 2 weeks. Quick quick yeeeeeeee noooooooooooooooo i am considering walking away ano Uncanny will probably bray me here but i am getting bunny boiler vibes.

JoJoC

Jeez, what a bunch of tw@ts you work for! As for your TL, if the pay wasn't messed up in the first place he/she wouldn't have had to come in to fix it!

Wow - she does sound keen! If you like her, I suppose a frank conversation about things happening a bit too quickly, and you'd like to get to know her properly before moving in etc might work? But if you're feeling like she might be a 'bunny boiler' then that doesn't say to me that you're really into the relationship? I'm sure you'll figure out what the best thing to do is for you though Good luck! ha

Scott_Weiland_2

Yeah jojoc i felt like saying do you want a medal i would buy you one but my last 2 pays are down in total 700-800.

I dont know if i do i did but there are loads and loads of alarm bells ringing that are quite bad. I am not sure being truthful i really really dont know what to do.

UncannyScot

Agree with JoJoC mate.
Talk with her and be honest, let her know how you feel about her and that you're not sure that moving in together so soon is a good idea.
That you want the relationship to grow etc.

It may be that she has been treated badly in the past and now she knows she has a good un she is perhaps running a bit ahead of herself IYKWIM?

Really hope it all works out mate

Scott_Weiland_2

It has gone belly up but it had too being truthful a lots happened i didnt post on here but i cant live a lie. She was a nice lass but it freaked me out her being so clingy and i felt like a possession not a bf. I had spoke 3-4 times re the possessive ness and made stuff but it didnt make a difference x

I wont put the gory details up

Scott_Weiland_2

Right todays diary update is a shortish one actually change that i am peed off rant coming up. Sorry

Re J my ex lady what basically happened was i spent from thursday at hers and well i don't think my feelings were as strong as hers and she did quite a lot to annoy me. I didnt get 5mins to breath, i was working Friday Saturday and Sunday night and she kept insisting i stayed at hers even though i was on nights. She woke me up countless times during the days after i had being to work. I had to blast her twice for playing xmas music at stupid levels. And i two or three times woke up with her playing games on her phone lying next to me. Nights is hard enough but broken sleep makes it worse.

On Sunday morning i said look after work i am going home via the gym dont pick me up monday. I had a flyer at 515am i explained look let me bus it home then by the time the bus gets to mine my gym will be open ie 7am. Even though i said this at 515am on her day off she was sitting outside my work waiting for me. I was a bit shell shocked.

Then after getting home from the gym i had being in bed an hour if that (note what i said earlier i work 10pm-7am nights) she was outside my house asking me to go to the metro centre with her. I said no due to being whacked, she said nb and drove off then she turned up outside mine at 8pm again. Even though i had being at hers thursday to sunday with work chucked in. I was done in i ended it it felt very very weird, plus the moving in comments and using the L word so soon freaked me out.

Sorry uncannyscot lol but she was a bit too ott i had conversations with her after date three too say wow can you stick the breaks on then a week later then again 3days back. Plus she did something that boiled me friday she gave me a hickey, i sat in work friday and saturday with huge jumpers and scarfs on that really got my goat.

Scott_Weiland_2

Money wise its being a spend day for me lol i bought at 9ish 3 big bottles of coors i needed it after my day. Also i well into the weights in the gym again so i spent 15quid on some ironwoody pilates bands they are a warm up band touch wood since i started using them no back or shoulder niggles.

I clicked 7.50 today from surveys £2.50 from opinion outpost and 5 from Swagbucks. Both went straight in my savings as i have to ring stepchange tomorrow due to the work pay issues. I think stepchange will be getting a reduced amount this month.

pa i am just waiting on 1.50 dropping then i have 8 or 9 quid that i will drop straight away