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Hi we have been fortunate to have been offered some money by my in laws to help us clear our debt. Theres not enough to clear everything but would like to offer one of our main defaulted accounts a final offer

In terms of where the funds came from will we need to divulge the source and will in laws be contacted at any point to confirm?

Also can anyone please help with how the f&f process works

thanks as usual
:j

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  • DrWatson1
    DrWatson1 Posts: 130 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary 100 Posts
    There is lots of really great information based on cases similar to yours in this thread:

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/115430

    Good luck!
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,555 Ambassador
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    Ferry you don't have to disclose anything to anyone.

    In your letter, just state the funds are "a gift from a family member".

    That's all you need to say.

    Make your offers in writing using the National Debtline template letter.

    Also do not part with any money, under any circumstances, until you have it in writing the account is settled, and any remaining balance will not be chased.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • ferry
    ferry Posts: 2,012 Forumite
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    sourcrates wrote: »
    Ferry you don't have to disclose anything to anyone.

    In your letter, just state the funds are "a gift from a family member".

    That's all you need to say.

    Make your offers in writing using the National Debtline template letter.

    Also do not part with any money, under any circumstances, until you have it in writing the account is settled, and any remaining balance will not be chased.

    Brilliant advice as usual, thank you
    :j
  • ferry
    ferry Posts: 2,012 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper
    Just wanted to clarify if deals are done via email is that an acceptable form of communication?
    Or will an officially signed letter be best?

    thanks
    :j
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 31,555 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    ferry wrote: »
    Just wanted to clarify if deals are done via email is that an acceptable form of communication?
    Or will an officially signed letter be best?

    thanks

    Best to keep everything in writing.

    Emails are ok, but sometimes get deleted, or not read.

    Best to do everything in writing so you have a record.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
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