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Christmas on my own Belfast

I moved here from overseas by myself earlier this year. I intended to fly home for Christmas but flights just too expensive and I'm starting a new job this month so probably wouldn't be able to book the time off anyway. I suppose I could take myself out for Christmas lunch somewhere in Belfast (expensive but cheaper than flying to Canada!). Any ideas on where I could go, keeping in mind it would just be me on my own - not sure if places would let just 1 person have a table on such a busy day?
I just want to have something planned, be busy to ward off feeling too sad/lonely!
Thanks

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  • duchy
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    edited 9 October 2016 at 10:41AM
    Have you checked flight prices from Dublin? Usually much cheaper than Belfast and the coach to Dublin airport is cheap.

    Alternatively would you consider volunteering at a shelter for part of the day. Keep you busy and probably meet other people new to the city volunteering too.
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  • whitewing
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    See if this is your kind of thing:

    http://www.belfastfriendshipclub.org/about-us/
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • I have checked prices from Dublin but still too pricey & I would feel cheeky asking for time off from my new job so soon. But the volunteering idea is definitely a great option. I will check that out. Instead of feeling sorry for myself I can do something useful! Thank you
  • Nomoonatall
    Nomoonatall Posts: 1,173 Forumite
    Hi Westwater,

    It's only one day. Don't worry about it. Get in comforting food and do what you want. x
  • donnac2558
    donnac2558 Posts: 3,638 Forumite
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    People have this thing of looking at people who spend Christmas Day on their own with Oh Poor You! If its some great tragedy.

    Its one day Boxing Day the shops are open, I have done it for years and never bothers me. I cook myself a dinner enjoy stupid TV shows, have a glass or two of champagne.
  • whitewing wrote: »
    See if this is your kind of thing:

    http://www.belfastfriendshipclub.org/about-us/

    Common grounds in the holylands hosts the friendship club. It also offers Xmas dinner for people who need it. Sounds like it would be a good fit for you :)
  • It might be a little depressing going to a local hotel on your own for christmas dinner - I have been and they are full of large family groups. The cultra inn is nice and festive.

    I suppose it depends on your personality - but like an earlier poster I would have a luxurious day at home - best food and wine all day, good book and a good movie. Marks and Spencer's do fabulous turkey joints that are really easy to pop in the oven.
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