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Hi
I bought a house with my ex partner over 8 year ago-we have now been split up for the last 2 years. in these 2 years I have been paying the mortgage and house insurance and my new partner who now lives in the property pays all household bills. things have gone bad with my ex now she is demanding rent off my partner (3000 pound) the mortgage I pay is 234 per month interest only. is she able to claim anything as obviously my partner and I share a room and the ex as not contributed to any mortgage payments for nearly 2 years.


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  • Smodlet
    Smodlet Posts: 6,976 Forumite
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    This sounds a little strange to me. Is your ex still living in the house? Is selling it and splitting the proceeds not an option?

    Most to the point, is there any kind of tenancy agreement in place? If not, I would suggest your ex's demand for rent is tenuous at best, especially if your current partner is contributing to household bills.
  • AMYC1982
    AMYC1982 Posts: 8 Forumite
    No my ex lives miles away....selling is not a option because of negative equity.... I think it's strange too!!! X
  • AMYC1982
    AMYC1982 Posts: 8 Forumite
    And no tenancy agreement in place
  • amnblog
    amnblog Posts: 12,771 Forumite
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    Your Ex sounds more than a little deranged.

    The sooner you get her off of the property deeds the better.

    In the meantime ignore this other nonsense.
    I am a Mortgage Broker

    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
  • Smodlet
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    Yeah, if there is/was no written agreement in place regarding your partner paying rent, then the usual applies: A verbal agreement is not worth the paper it is written on.

    Perhaps your ex wants his/her half of the value of the house, to which they are entitled but, if it is in negative equity, all he/she would get is half of the debt. Perhaps communication is key here, after all half of the house (unless you have a legal, written agreement stating otherwise) belongs to your ex. Selling at this time would seem inadvisable from a financial pov but they may just want to draw a line under your relationship and move on.

    Good luck.
  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
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    How do you propose dealing with the negative equity? Until it's resolved you'll maintain your relationship with the ex.
  • csgohan4
    csgohan4 Posts: 10,600 Forumite
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    Do you have plans to pay off the mortgage in time since it is interest only?






    Do not bury you head in the sand like others have when they post on here with 1 year to 6 months to go of the end of term.
    "It is prudent when shopping for something important, not to limit yourself to Pound land/Estate Agents"

    G_M/ Bowlhead99 RIP
  • AMYC1982
    AMYC1982 Posts: 8 Forumite
    Yes I Do in time....once the house prices rise and she is off it
  • Kynthia
    Kynthia Posts: 5,692 Forumite
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    You are an owner living in your property and can have others of your choosing live there. Your ex has the legal right to move in, and has tge option of forcing a sale through the courts if they choose, however they can't make your guest pay them rent.
    Don't listen to me, I'm no expert!
  • AMYC1982
    AMYC1982 Posts: 8 Forumite
    Thankyou
    ...she really does not want to move back in, and the mortgage company won't allow us to sell because of the negative, she is just trying her luck I think x
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