Is it rude to ask people if they are still coming to your wedding?

DigForVictory

Since this can be potentially awkward, Delegate!

Pick your smoothest talking & financially most embarrassed friend & ask them to use this prepaid mobile to check these name/number folks' menu choices, as their present to you.

You do not have to do it all yourself - indeed, a carefully picked Team can make the whole palaver a great deal more restful & enjoyable for all!

7roland8

Gosh no. Do it yourself as you know the people and how to set each conversation. I'd do it now to get it out of your head.

fatpiggy

Why not send a "last orders please" message around? There is no need to mention the finances. You could just say that you need to know exactly who is coming so that you can sort out table place names or something.