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DIY Will

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  • LeadFarmer
    LeadFarmer Posts: 106 Forumite
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    edited 6 July 2016 at 7:38PM
    I haven't seen the will, but I'm sure she would show it to me if I asked.

    She says theres no point paying a solicitor for a will as her will is simple, with her three children (one being myself) being the beneficiaries, apart from the trust fund.

    I see her point, as intestate rules mean her estate passes to her children anyway

    From the gov.uk website...
    The estate is shared equally between the children or their descendants.

    But Ive explained this doesn't cover any unexpected eventualities, but she won't budge.

    Its frustrating as my mother and father spent ages sorting out her elderly parents financial affairs, but won't get something like a will done for herself. If I talk to her about it I feel that I appear as being greedy and selfish.
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    LeadFarmer wrote: »
    Its frustrating as my mother and father spent ages sorting out her elderly parents financial affairs, but won't get something like a will done for herself. If I talk to her about it I feel that I appear as being greedy and selfish.

    It is a shame. I think the person who refuses to leave their affairs in order is the person who is being selfish but she obviously thinks that the DIY will is adequate.
  • lisyloo
    lisyloo Posts: 30,113 Forumite
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    Under what cirucumstances would it be inadequate in a simple situation like this?
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    lisyloo wrote: »
    Under what cirucumstances would it be inadequate in a simple situation like this?

    If any of the wording is ambiguous.

    If the will hasn't been signed correctly by the testator and the witnesses.
  • lisyloo
    lisyloo Posts: 30,113 Forumite
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    Hmm......... So if you clearly state you want everything you own split between your offspring and sign it correctly you're ok.
    Doesn't seem like a huge risk to me.
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    lisyloo wrote: »
    Hmm......... So if you clearly state you want everything you own split between your offspring and sign it correctly you're ok.
    Doesn't seem like a huge risk to me.

    Might not be - but any problems won't show up until after you're dead and it's too late to put them right.
  • greenglide
    greenglide Posts: 3,301 Forumite
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    .... and if one of the offspring dies leaving two offspring of there own?

    Do they get nothing or half of what their parent would have got or .....
  • Keep_pedalling
    Keep_pedalling Posts: 22,732 Forumite
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    greenglide wrote: »
    .... and if one of the offspring dies leaving two offspring of there own?

    Do they get nothing or half of what their parent would have got or .....

    That would depend on the wording of the will, but if no clause was included as to what should happen in this scenario, then the grand children would inherit their parent's legacy in equal shares.
  • ischofie1
    ischofie1 Posts: 216 Forumite
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    A friend who is a solicitor once told me the worst thing you can do is DIY on a will.
    Obviously you won't be around to find out if it was a good idea or not!!
  • bigadaj
    bigadaj Posts: 11,531 Forumite
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    ischofie1 wrote: »
    A friend who is a solicitor once told me the worst thing you can do is DIY on a will.
    Obviously you won't be around to find out if it was a good idea or not!!

    Wouldn't disagree but it's a bit like a mechanic telling you no to work on your car, there is an element of self interest there.
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