Struggling to pay my mortgage alone - bank not interested! *Rant*

lmjohstone

Thrugelmir wrote: »

The problem is you needed to address this sooner. If your separation is permanent then you and your ex should be thrashing out a financial settlement. The house should be on the market. Not your lenders responsibility to step in between warring ex partners and bail you out because things haven't worked out as you thought. Being pro-active in (I appreciate) difficult circumstances isn't easy but reality has to be faced and personal responsibilities accepted. .

If you read my original post, and subsequent posts you would note that the house has been on the market since April.

lmjohstone

Thanks for everyone's helpful advice on this (and no thanks the other no-so-helpful advice!).

We accepted an asking price offer today.

Thrugelmir

lmjohstone wrote: »

If you read my original post, and subsequent posts you would note that the house has been on the market since April.

I'm pleased to hear that you've now sold the property and move forward. My views aren't personal. In the midst of the angst no one is actually to blame. That's life unfortunately.