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Loans after death

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john1962
john1962 Posts: 1 Newbie
edited 13 November 2015 at 10:28PM in Loans
No longer relevant. Please delete.

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  • p00hsticks
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    My first thoughts are - how much money is involved, and how easily would you be able to afford to pay her ?

    I can see your reasoning, but if it's a case of a fairly small anmount of money that you can easily afford, I personally would be tempted to just give it to her in order to avoid a family feud
  • Gaz83
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    Sounds like a messy situation. You need to get some proper, legal, advice.
    "Facism arrives as your friend. It will restore your honour, make you feel proud, protect your house, give you a job, clean up the neighbourhood, remind you of how great you once were, clear out the venal and the corrupt, remove anything you feel is unlike you... [it] doesn't walk in saying, "our programme means militias, mass imprisonments, transportations, war and persecution."
  • Nearlyold
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    edited 13 November 2015 at 7:39PM
    p00hsticks wrote: »
    My first thoughts are - how much money is involved, and how easily would you be able to afford to pay her ?

    I can see your reasoning, but if it's a case of a fairly small anmount of money that you can easily afford, I personally would be tempted to just give it to her in order to avoid a family feud

    Agree with the above you both need to put the amount into some sort of perspective, don't forget if you owe the estate say £10,000 your sister would only get £5,000 more - because the £10,000 would then be part of the estate which you are entitled to 50% of anyway. If you do decide to repay an amount do it the official way by paying it into the estate These things are always difficult because there is nothing like the sniff of an inheritance to bring out the worst in people, having said that your sister could soon be posting complaining about a sister and brother in law who borrowed a large amount from her late father and didn't pay it back. Who are the executors by the way?
  • Caz3121
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    When someone dies, debts they leave are paid out of their estate(money and property they leave behind). You're only responsible for their debts if you had a joint loan or agreement or provided a loan guarantee - you aren't automatically responsible for a husband's, wife's or civil partner's debts.

    the original post (which has been removed) was around a brother and sister having been left 50% each when father died. Each had at some point borrowed money from the father and not fully repaid so the question was around whether the 50% each should be amended based on the amount they still owed to the father
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