Genetic screening - any experiences

charliewocka

I have a cousin whose son has Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy (a fatal condition generally passed onto boys through the mother due to genetic fault). It seems that another one of my cousins sons is showing possible traits of the condition.


I'm 32, female, and in a serious relationship. We've spoken of a future together, having a family, have recently bought a house. Because of the possible DMD genetic carrier status I would not have a child unless I knew for sure that it would be healthy (PLEASE do not get started on the morals of this - this is my wish, and my partners, having spoken at great deals about it). However, I am scared. I've done the research into the condition, the genetics and the importance of being tested myself. However, my fears are that if I am tested and found to be a carrier of the gene, the associated issues of having help to fall pregnant (selective IVF for medical reasons). Also, if I am positive, the feeling of being 'faulty' and inadequate. I also worry that if I get a 'negative' test, that it won't be 100% certain and that I could still potentially have a child that would have the condition.


Has anybody undergone genetic screening before, and what have their experiences been? I understand that there will be a lot of counselling involved before and after testing, but I just don't know what is involved......


Thanks in advance....