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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Sorry to hear that:grouphug:
    hope you work things out
    xx
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Thank you for your messages, sorry I haven't replied, I am trying to sort things out - not sure if they CAN be sorted out really. It feels like such a mess. Please bear with me if I don't post much for a bit, I'm okay, I've just got a lot to think about and work through. Sorry I can't go into more details, it's not really suitable for an open forum that anyone could read, but I really do appreciate how amazing you are. Love to you all xxxx
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    snags, always here for you sweetie....xxx
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,486 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Huggles Snaggles.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
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  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Really hope thinks turn out OK for you Snaggles, sleep on it and see how you feel in the morning, somethimes things dont seem quite so bad once the dust has settled.

    PM me if you like as I think I know what you are going through.xxx
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • taka
    taka Posts: 3,483 Forumite
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    ((((Hugs)))) Snaggles... we are all here for you whenever you need us.

    taka xx
    Mortgage free as of 12/08/20!
    MFiT-5 no 45
    You can't fly with one foot on the ground!
  • duchy
    duchy Posts: 19,511 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Xmas Saver!
    Hang on in there sweetie-cool head and take it hour by hour
    Big Hugs
    I Would Rather Climb A Mountain Than Crawl Into A Hole

    MSE Florida wedding .....no problem
  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    Oh no! Just popped in to see joyous debt free posts & see that you may be splitting up....dont know what to say other than (1) I am really sorry (2) Let me know if I can do anything (3) Send huge hugs for you (4) Suggest as a last ditch attempt is it worth trying for relate counc...I knw at times things have gone too far & its hard to think straight when life in turmoil...sometimes it can help to write it down - a list of pros & cons but sometimes you just know :(
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • Ellidee
    Ellidee Posts: 6,216 Forumite
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    Snags just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you, as I'm sure all of your friends on here are too. Hope you have someone who you can confide in and who can support you, emotionally, while you work through this. Take care and sending you lots of love and positive vibes. XX El
    Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task. William James
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