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  • moonlightpjs
    moonlightpjs Posts: 1,583 Forumite
    hi weller, good thanks hun... hope you and andy are ok? and the little one is too, did you take him to the docs to try and explain that the break in wasnt the reason daddy was ill?


    Andy seems to be ok though I think its just suddenly hit me as feeling very down. Sam is seeing a physoligist (sp?) on Monday so hoping that goes well and Andy has an appointment on Thursday.

    My dads paying the mortgage and all the bills at the moment (bless him) and Andy has applied for incapacity benefit and the like so we're managing at the moment but we dont need to spend a lot - just the essentails though I'm not sure if I should ring the teax credits up to say Andy is not working at the moment :confused:
  • weller711 wrote: »
    Just been reading IA's diary and i really feel for her - just don't know what to say - people have helped me and you dont know how much its appreciated but somebody layed into her for other people halping her buy a cake - what would they say to me?

    they wouldnt say anything its non of their business. I gave to ia for her cake and no matter what she did with my gift to her is her own doing. I wouldnt give some one cash/vouchers/a gift and demand to know what they spent it on. So what she brought a ps3 and put it onto a credit card, they are still young, they still have to live. I didnt get involved in the conversation last time i had to bite my tounge. But weller your case is tottaly and utterly different and dont you worry about anything ~ no one will utter a single word hug8ok.gif
  • moonlightpjs
    moonlightpjs Posts: 1,583 Forumite
    Anyway, my eyes are going funny so I'm off to bed now.
    Just wanted to say hello amd thanks - next year is going to be a better year for us, I'm going to make sure of it.

    Lots of love to you SuperPap, talk to you soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    P.S> I haven't forgotten
  • moonlightpjs
    moonlightpjs Posts: 1,583 Forumite
    I'm crying now and coudl do with a hug but I dont want to let Andy know I'm crying
  • weller711 wrote: »
    Andy seems to be ok though I think its just suddenly hit me as feeling very down. Sam is seeing a physoligist (sp?) on Monday so hoping that goes well and Andy has an appointment on Thursday.

    My dads paying the mortgage and all the bills at the moment (bless him) and Andy has applied for incapacity benefit and the like so we're managing at the moment but we dont need to spend a lot - just the essentails though I'm not sure if I should ring the teax credits up to say Andy is not working at the moment :confused:

    awww weller... sorry you are feeling low but its not supprising since you ahve had to be strong for both andy and sam, not to mention so soon after your poor cat. Hope all goes well at both appointments, i shall be thinking ofyou.

    Definatly phone tax credits, even if you just get a little increase for a few months before andys incapacity benefit kicks in it will help out. And may i add what a great father you have :T
  • weller711 wrote: »
    I'm crying now and coudl do with a hug but I dont want to let Andy know I'm crying

    pophugbyzappe1ak.gifhug8ok.gifhug.gif I know they are only virtual, wish i was closer...
    weller711 wrote: »
    P.S> I haven't forgotten

    and i have said before and i will say it agian... no ~ never ever ever :D
  • moonlightpjs
    moonlightpjs Posts: 1,583 Forumite
    Night Night Pap - you're so special - love you to pieces and yes my dad is the bestest dad in the world
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Weller ((((hugs))))), it's so lovely to see you - just talk to us if you need to - but Andy will understand if you cry, i promise sweetheart. He might even be worried if you DON'T cry.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    If you ever need someone to chat to Weller, I'm here - my sister has had cancer and recovered, so I have been where you are now, and know what you are going through. And I'm not that far away if you need a real hug!
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
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    x_raphael_xx Posts: 4,411 Forumite
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