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Why don't HR listen to experience ?

Mchambers
Mchambers Posts: 1,054 Forumite
People,

My friend is on a career break and is employed by a major bank.

She contacted her employer in order to raise a grievance with regards her employer's manager. The HR manager advised her that she needed to raise the grievance a.s.a.p. whilst she was on her career break.

She immediately challenged this as she knew that this did not comply with the company's policy with regards grievances.

She has later received today another em to advise that the grievance can start later this year after she has returned to work.

Worringly the HR manager is supposed to be a senior manager..

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  • KiKi
    KiKi Posts: 5,381 Forumite
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    I'm not sure I understand your point other than someone may have made a mistake in the advice they gave first time round.
    ' <-- See that? It's called an apostrophe. It does not mean "hey, look out, here comes an S".
  • Mchambers
    Mchambers Posts: 1,054 Forumite
    Simple response....HR senior mgt at this place talk rubbish and should not b trusted.
  • prowla
    prowla Posts: 14,179 Forumite
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    I've not met many HR people who know what they are talking about.
    They're only people in a job, and they aren't infallible.
  • Mchambers
    Mchambers Posts: 1,054 Forumite
    Who cares when then they talk bollock* ?
  • agrinnall
    agrinnall Posts: 23,344 Forumite
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    You seem to be taking this so personally that I can only assume that the 'friend' is in fact you, otherwise why would it matter so much to you?
  • Goldiegirl
    Goldiegirl Posts: 8,806 Forumite
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    I don't really understand the first post.

    The friend,who is on a career break, contacted the employer to raise a grievance. The HR manager told her she can get on with it now.

    But then the friend told the HR manager that she can raise the grievance when she gets back to work, and later received an email to confirm this

    So why did your friend contact HR now, when she knew full well she could wait until she got back to work to deal with this

    Sorry it doesn't make any sense
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  • tomtontom
    tomtontom Posts: 7,929 Forumite
    It would be good practice to issue the grievance as soon as possible. If the employee is off work for any length of time it will be difficult to thoroughly investigate the complaint upon their return as people may not accurately recall what happened. Plus, surely they want to get this resolved prior to their return? It would be pretty miserable returning with this hanging over them.
  • Takeaway_Addict
    Takeaway_Addict Posts: 6,538 Forumite
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    Mchambers wrote: »
    People,

    My friend is on a career break and is employed by a major bank.

    She contacted her employer in order to raise a grievance with regards her employer's manager. The HR manager advised her that she needed to raise the grievance a.s.a.p. whilst she was on her career break.

    She immediately challenged this as she knew that this did not comply with the company's policy with regards grievances.

    She has later received today another em to advise that the grievance can start later this year after she has returned to work.

    Worringly the HR manager is supposed to be a senior manager..
    Oh boohooo, a mistake was made and then funnily enough rectified!

    Even managers are human and make mistakes.

    Also, I doubt the grievance will hold much water when your friend comes back considering the time lapse.
    Don't trust a forum for advice. Get proper paid advice. Any advice given should always be checked
  • 74jax
    74jax Posts: 7,930 Forumite
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    I'm confused over what experience HR are not listening to?
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  • System
    System Posts: 178,374 Community Admin
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    Why raise a grievance in a career break if you do not wish to deal with it in said career break?

    If I was on a career break the last thing I would think about is work!
    This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
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