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I dont know where to put this sorry. Manipulative girl at work

AimeeMarson1
AimeeMarson1 Posts: 3 Newbie
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  • Well I'm not sure what to say really.

    It sounds to me that she was a teachers pet,wanted all the attention and got upset that you were better at you're job and more attractive than her.

    It looks like she got what she wanted you leaving. :(

    And no I don't think you as the bad person just the victim by the feel of it.
  • Thank you, i felt i had to leave as husband said she was all i spoke about and wasn't doing me any good. I started to lose who I was, i went from jolly and friendly to unhappy and complaining. Sad thing is, i don't even like attention and just happen to get on with people. But the stress was killing me and nothing i could do would stop it. Funny thing is, my drivers said as soon as i left the girl and female boss were out flirting with drivers all the time.
  • Sounds like you're better off out of it.

    I know it feels crap at the moment but try and look on the bright side :)

    You have a husband, a roof over you're head and no job lol..

    I've quit so many jobs over other people I've lost count.

    That's why I'm on the internet at 3am on a Wedneday night.!:rotfl:
  • clairec79
    clairec79 Posts: 2,512 Forumite
    While she does sound like a cow, you don't sound like you are completely innocent either and did stir things up to the next level
  • Appreciate your response, although, I dont think sticking up for myself afterr a year of hell makes me even close to being as bad. I just cracked, thats all. Guess this is why nasty people win, she did and clearly has no sense of guilt. Oh well
  • tomtontom
    tomtontom Posts: 7,929 Forumite
    You sound like a bunch of children, and as bad as each other. Is this your first job?
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