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Mortgage advice desperately needed

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Me and my bird can't get a mortgage as she has been on a debt plan, she's paid it off now like but won't be able to get any credit for a few more years yet.

Her mum and step dad have offered to sell their house and buy a bigger house for us all to live in. They have a minimum 50k deposit but because of her mums age they can't get the money we need so we have been to a mortgage broker who said me and her step dad can get a mortgage.

This is where all the problems start, the banks are saying that we can't do it because her mum isn't on the new mortgage, her and my bird will be classed as squatters and we have even been told about money laundering.

Haven't got a clue where to go now and what to do, there house is sold and we've had an offer accepted on a house we are trying to buy.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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  • Annisele
    Annisele Posts: 4,835 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Stop trying to deal directly with banks, and go and see an independent mortgage broker.

    I don't know if what you want to do is possible or not, but a broker will be better placed to advise you than a bank.
  • Lee35
    Lee35 Posts: 7 Forumite
    That's exactly what we have done and it was all agreed in principle until today when it all went wrong.
  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    What has your broker advised?
  • Lee35
    Lee35 Posts: 7 Forumite
    ok after a lot of deliberation with different lenders the following have been looked at:



    virgin - would only go off pension income

    Coventry - not happy to proceed as daughter and mum squatters rights

    Halifax - maxed out lend at 144k

    nationwide - squatters rights

    Lloyds - max lend 139k

    accord max lend 79k as mum and daughter seen as dependants

    skipton - max lend 139k

    leeds max lend 98k

    principality max lend - 139k

    Woolwich not happy to proceed as daughter and mum squatters rights

    national counties - max lend 124k

    Newcastle building society - not happy to proceed as daughter and mum squatters rights
  • Dave_Ham
    Dave_Ham Posts: 6,045 Forumite
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    Wow - some lender list

    Let's start from the top, do you all want to live together?

    How much do you and the Mrs earn and standalone deposit do you have?

    If on plan B and all in together, what age is father in law and what income does he have

    If the lenders above are from the broker, they are a clown. Some of these lenders are patently not going go like this scenario...
    I am a Mortgage Broker
    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it.
    This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser code of conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
  • Lee35
    Lee35 Posts: 7 Forumite
    Yes the plan is to all live together.

    Ma and my partner have no deposit and only my earnings will be taken into account because of her being unable to get credit, I earn 17k basic and 3k overtime minimum.

    Father in law earns 18k basic and 5k overtime .

    There is a 50k deposit from father in law and her mother's house sale.
  • Pixie5740
    Pixie5740 Posts: 14,515 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Eighth Anniversary Name Dropper Photogenic
    You and your bird? Who are you? Rod Hull?
  • Dave_Ham
    Dave_Ham Posts: 6,045 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    How old is step dad?
    I am a Mortgage Broker
    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it.
    This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser code of conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
  • Lee35
    Lee35 Posts: 7 Forumite
    He is 49 sorry
  • Dave_Ham
    Dave_Ham Posts: 6,045 Forumite
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    Then there should be lenders that are happy with the circumstances and will lend a bit more, subject to the finer detail of course

    Tell your existing broker to call up every lender he/she can find or admit they don't know.

    Don't give up as likely to be a better solution

    That said, is living with your in laws long term what you both really want?
    I am a Mortgage Broker
    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it.
    This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser code of conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
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