We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

1st May Lightbulb Day The Journey Begins

Options
Hi all,

This Diary is to chronicle my fianc! and my journey to DFW.

Approximately seven years ago our troubles began when we started to borrow just o pay rent due to shortfalls in financing and steadily built up cc debt. To be honest I wasn't really budgeting and when emergencies came up just put it on cc. About four years ago we started needing payday loans to cope and eventually things just spiralled.

We moved out and back to the parents whilst I looked for better pay prospects and suddenly got a job paying me £8000 more but was in central London so more costly to get to.

Due to personal circumstances we needed to move out as the parents and us couldn't get along (putting it mildly) and moved in to a horrendous houseshare which I struggled with as we had the most irresponsible housemates ever but it was all we could afford. We finally broke through and were able to afford a one bed flat to rent but as I am sure all have known before things happen and we had to move and my fianc! lost her job.

I am sure many have experienced these issues and what strikes me is how easy it is to just bury your head in the sand and just leave it but it was the death of my Aunt that has really made me hit back to start the journey to lose weight and debt.

The debt is circa £43000 and a using a DMP kindly being set up by Stepchange (formerly CCCS). It is really daunting but I am really intent on just making headway and setting a realistic target as we plan to put every spare penny to the debts and I really want to back what we owe.

The creditors have kindly frozen interest which does help massively. On we go....

Comments

  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Debt-free and Proud! Stoptober Survivor
    Good luck x
    Debt (1/9/14) £6,702.11 Debt free (30/11/2016) mortgage port- £70,077.82 and mortgage £126,517.39 o/s currently
    Debt - £17,190.83 (29/7/22) now (19/8/22) £16,688.80
  • Thanks Monz. I have to admit the first two weeks watching every penny like a hawk has made me realise how much we just used. Test today from step-change payments start 1/6/15. Things are looking up.:)
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 350.9K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.5K Spending & Discounts
  • 243.9K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.8K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.9K Life & Family
  • 257.2K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.