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she wants me to move out.....

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aaa13ljsldjfldskj Posts: 71 Forumite
edited 11 November 2015 at 4:13PM in Mortgages & endowments
many thanks

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  • amnblog
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    Let them move if they have a problem.
    I am a Mortgage Broker

    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
  • amnblog wrote: »
    Let them move if they have a problem.

    exactly........ thanks

    we have only a couple of weeks left and with the exception of me shouting last night I have kept my cool and they are losing the plot.
  • chelseablue
    chelseablue Posts: 3,303 Forumite
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    2 weeks is nothing really, I'd stay put

    Could always spend the 2 weeks doing overtime at work or visiting friends/family so you're not there much
  • amnblog
    amnblog Posts: 12,771 Forumite
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    Or spend the two weeks creeping round at night to keep them on edge.
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    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
  • ACG
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    Im not sure I would move out.
    Whilst I imagine they are unlikely to do anything to the house, you cant be sure.

    You cant do much more than apologise, im sure its pretty stressful for all of you. Ask the 15 year old to pay your rent for somewhere? That might put her back in her hole.

    Maybe make a joke of how bad it is and put up a calendar with a circle round the date and freedom above it? It gives you something to all look at.

    Apart from that, its just a case of trying to live with each other for a few weeks. At least there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
    I am a Mortgage Adviser
    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a mortgage adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
  • pinkteapot
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    Have you exchanged contracts yet?

    If you want to move out, I see no reason not to once you've exchanged contracts and the sale is certain.
  • pinkteapot wrote: »
    Have you exchanged contracts yet?

    If you want to move out, I see no reason not to once you've exchanged contracts and the sale is certain.

    not yet, they are waiting for a search and apparently because of the delay, one of the chain is waiting for an extended mortgage offer...?
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