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  • pleasedelete
    pleasedelete Posts: 2,291 Forumite
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    Ok. It isnt a wedding later in the year- it is a holiday (with family/friends).

    How much will it be if you have nothing wedding related?
    June challenge £100 a day £3161.63 plus £350 vouchers plus £108.37 food/shopping saving

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  • pleasedelete
    pleasedelete Posts: 2,291 Forumite
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    edited 26 March 2015 at 6:38PM
    Just to add- do you guests know that you are already married? I would be pretty peed off if I was invited to a wedding abroad- with all of the expense- to discover that I was in fact on the honeymoon.

    If you tell them wont most decide not to bother? Or just see it as the holiday it is- you wont be paying for any of it? how does it cost £5K?
    June challenge £100 a day £3161.63 plus £350 vouchers plus £108.37 food/shopping saving

    July challenge £50 a day. £ 1682.50/1550

    October challenge £100 a day. £385/£3100
  • andyfromotley
    andyfromotley Posts: 2,038 Forumite
    someone getting into debt - small problem

    someone refusing to deal with it - huge problem

    Your post screams resentment of your OH. (and i'm not surprised) if you don't resolve this it will end up making you much more angry.
    £1000 Emergency fund No90 £1000/1000
    LBM 28/1/15 total debt - [STRIKE]£23,410[/STRIKE] 24/3/16 total debt - £7,298
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