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Rip-off care home fees!

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  • le_loup
    le_loup Posts: 4,047 Forumite
    In this part of the south-east care homes are around £600 and nursing homes around £1,000. Which is it?
  • xylophone
    xylophone Posts: 45,932 Forumite
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    My acquaintance was formerly in a care home (around £900 a week and that particular home had connections with a charity) - when transferred to a combined care/nursing home, ( no charity connection) the fees increased....
  • xylophone
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    it's what would have happened just a few decades ago, in the pre-care-home days;

    I suspect that at that time, there was more likely to have been a non working caregiver available within the household?

    Some people are so frail that they cannot safely be left without constant attendance.
  • mgdavid
    mgdavid Posts: 6,711 Forumite
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    in my part of the southeast the top care homes are close to £1k / week. I shudder to think what full nursing costs.
    The questions that get the best answers are the questions that give most detail....
  • greenglide
    greenglide Posts: 3,301 Forumite
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    But "full nursing" should be funded by NHS continuing care shouldn't it?

    But it is reckoned to be quite a fight to get it funded.
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    albert100 wrote: »
    Thanks All.


    She is totally immobile


    She lives about an hour away, near where she used to live and her network of friends. Moving her here would cause her grief.


    Our home would not work for someone who cannot move on her own or get up any stairs.


    Moving her to Thailand is interesting but not a goer either I fear.


    Sorry for mouthing off but this is causing my family an immense amount of anxiety.


    Why is it causing your family an immense amount of anxiety if you know that she is being given the best possible care.


    Or are you anxious about that your inheritance is whittling away....
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • xylophone
    xylophone Posts: 45,932 Forumite
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    Or are you anxious about that your inheritance is whittling away....

    The OP could be anxious on his MIL's behalf because her capital is diminishing and she might not be able to afford to stay in the home where she feels happy and secure?
  • If that is for nursing care then £1100 a week now seems about right for SE England

    We were paying £1166 a week for my Mum (dementia and medium rate nursing care) 3 years ago in Berkshire BUT my Mother in law was in a care home, ironically at the same time and for the same needs but in the Midlands, and that was £550 a week. Both given superb care.

    The SE is definitely much more expensive.
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