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Not allowed to use gift from God-mother as deposit!

Hi. This is my first post so be kind!
We have recently moved to new area, sold our old house and have a significant deposit sitting in the bank waiting to go. Our problem is that I am working as a supply teacher so my 'salary' won't be taken into consideration :(
We have seen a house we are keen to buy but on just my husbands salary we are £40k short! Over Christmas, my (Fairy) Godmother offered us the £40k to be paid back when we can re-mortgage in 2 years, using both salaries (i.e. When I find a permanent teaching post). We were delighted and after agreeing the terms with all parties approached a couple of Mortgage lenders...
It turns out we are not allowed to use my Godmother's money! We can only use money from immediate family! Has anyone heard of this before? It seems ridiculous to us... Not sure where to go from here, can anyone think of a way around this (that obviously isn't illegal!)
Thank you!

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  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    If you have to pay it back, it's not a gift.
  • chanz4
    chanz4 Posts: 11,057 Forumite
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    none starter its a loan
    Don't put your trust into an Experian score - it is not a number any bank will ever use & it is generally a waste of money to purchase it. They are also selling you insurance you dont need.
  • md87
    md87 Posts: 36 Forumite
    In law it would need to be a gift for you to proceed on that basis, but what you have described is a loan. If a contract of some sort was signed stating that the money was a gift then you could use it. Technically you can still pay it back (but you won't say this to the lender) but legally the person lending you the money has no right to recover it if it is given to you as a gift. I.e they will have no security just your word that you will pay it back. Hope I make sense with this.
  • Let_Us_See
    Let_Us_See Posts: 1,319 Forumite
    Not an impossible position, even without the proposed "loan."

    Please confirm your husband's and your gross annual incomes? How long have you been supply teaching?
  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
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    Kwj17 wrote: »
    We can only use money from immediate family!Has anyone heard of this before? It seems ridiculous to us...

    Many times before. Lenders set their policies according to the impact on them of broader aspects of law. Such as the Insolvency Act 1985.
    Lenders money, so lenders rules.
  • There are a couple of lenders who will probably accept this as a correctly structured interest free loan.


    Stop trying to do this yourself and get a good, experienced mortgage broker on the case.
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  • amnblog
    amnblog Posts: 12,771 Forumite
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    Sounds like you do not need your Godmother's money as much as a good mortgage broker.
    I am a Mortgage Broker

    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
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