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A husbands dilemma

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  • getmore4less
    getmore4less Posts: 46,882 Forumite
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    How old are the kids

    What do you want?

    Are you only guessing she may want a separation.
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,571 Forumite
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    Have you spoken to her about her feelings - counselling would be a lot cheaper than a divorce.
  • C_Mababejive
    C_Mababejive Posts: 11,668 Forumite
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    Feudal Britain needs land reform. 70% of the land is "owned" by 1 % of the population and at least 50% is unregistered (inherited by landed gentry). Thats why your slave box costs so much..
  • hueknight1969
    hueknight1969 Posts: 171 Forumite
    Children 7 and 13 years old. She wants her name on for piece of mind. So would I.
    Had some legal advice that it won't make any difference with her name on or not. I don't want to split but it takes 2 to make a mariage
  • Old_Git
    Old_Git Posts: 4,751 Forumite
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    hueknight1969 wrote: »
    Children 7 and 13 years old. She wants her name on for piece of mind. So would I.
    Had some legal advice that it won't make any difference with her name on or not. I don't want to split but it takes 2 to make a mariage

    do a deal ,she gets her name on the deeds if you both go to relate
    "Do not regret growing older, it's a privilege denied to many"
  • dimbo61
    dimbo61 Posts: 13,727 Forumite
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    Yes agree with OLD GIT
    Tell her you will put her name on deeds once mortgage finished in Feb 2015.
    Ask her what she wants and go to relate if needed.
    Do Not leave the house you have" both" worked hard to pay for.
  • SuperSaver123
    SuperSaver123 Posts: 310 Forumite
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    Mojisola wrote: »
    Have you spoken to her about her feelings - counselling would be a lot cheaper than a divorce.

    Have tried talking to each other? There are some good marriage therapies out there if honest one to one conversation doesnt help. Much cheaper and healthier option than divorce for you, her and the kids!
  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
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    hueknight1969 wrote: »
    She wants her name on for piece of mind. So would I.

    Then do it. Actions speak louder than words as the old saying goes.
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